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Decisions about
Parenting.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Parenting. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
Parenting Overview
55%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
164
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Parenting Regret Curve

Detailed aggregate statistics and longitudinal curves for this category are being calculated from the dataset.

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I chose to pursue therapies and exercises to help my daughter reach milestones

My daughter's underdeveloped optic nerves and delayed development have caused me significant stress and guilt

Regret Level8/10

To be a perfect mother

Yelled at kids despite vowing not to, feeling overwhelmed and unsupported

Regret Level10/10

Tried to solve sleep issues alone

My kids are inconsistent sleepers, causing me to lose sleep at night

Regret Level8/10

Completed potty training

Potty training was successful with creative methods

Regret Level1/10

Parents won't raise my kids

I'm unlikely to have involved grandparents

Regret Level8/10

Hid sons' half-brother's death

Hid death from 8 and 10 year old sons to avoid trauma

Regret Level8/10

Burst into tears in front of my son's school staff

I cried in front of everyone at my kids school today, feeling like a failure despite staff reassurance

Regret Level8/10

decide when to tell my son about his twin

lost twin during pregnancy, kept secret

Regret Level8/10

Ask parents about guns in the house

Saw guns at friend's teacher party, now cautious

Regret Level2/10

Waited 10 years to have a child

Daughter talks about death, fears losing me

Regret Level9/10

Forgot Halloween plans, unprepared for trick-or-treaters

Forgot to prepare for trick-or-treaters after co-parenting plan change, feeling guilty and embarrassed

Regret Level8/10

Forgot to check school email

Missed Veteran's Day assembly due to lack of notice

Regret Level8/10

Decide when to reveal Santa truth

Son still believes in Santa at 11

Regret Level6/10

Brought travel potty to toddler's park party

Travel potty in a tent was a hit at my daughter's birthday party.

Regret Level1/10

allowed music obsession

daughter became overly fixated on a band's lead singer, impacting daily life

Regret Level3/10

Having a child at 30

Toddlers are exhausting, especially with health issues

Regret Level2/10

proving myself to my child

I fell off a ropes course obstacle and dislocated my shoulder while trying to prove I was capable

Regret Level8/10

Talk to teenager about birth control

Found condom in teenager's car

Regret Level3/10

Navigating son's feelings about girl best friend's body changes

Son noticed girl best friend's bra strap, felt embarrassed, and unsure about his feelings

Regret Level2/10

Switched to cargo bike for kid transport

Kids love cargo bike, enjoy rides together

Regret Level2/10