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Decisions about
Parenting.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Parenting. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
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Parenting Overview
65%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
29
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Parenting Regret Curve

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I chose to have children with an abusive partner

My children suffered emotional trauma due to their father's abuse and neglect

Regret Level10/10

To seek guidance on emotional support from family

My parents' constant criticism and lack of emotional support have made me feel drained and anxious

Regret Level8/10

struggling to balance work and family life

I'm short-tempered and exhausted, never connecting with my kids

Regret Level8/10

Discussing separation with kids

My sensitive 9-year-old son felt anxious and upset when told about our separation, but I wish I had prepared him better

Regret Level5/10

Support children's autonomy

Projected regrets onto my children

Regret Level4/10

Started making snack boxes for toddlers

Reduced food waste, introduced variety in diet

Regret Level1/10

Refusing to go with abusive father

My father's abuse worsened after joint custody, causing me to fail classes and suffer medical neglect

Regret Level10/10

Introducing partner to kids

Partner wants to meet kids after 6 months alone with them, I'm concerned about history repeating and revolving door policy

Regret Level8/10

Prioritize kids' happiness over financial stability

My ex provides more for our kids due to his higher income and family support

Regret Level8/10

Pursuing master's degree at UPenn

Started son's early education in quant finance

Regret Level2/10

Moving within NJ without ex's consent

Moved to NJ to escape NYC, but still expensive and traumatic

Regret Level8/10

Constantly trying to please husband's excessive demands

Husband's anxiety is causing strain on our relationship and my ability to care for our daughter

Regret Level8/10

Spending 150k on private school

Daughter wants private school despite free SUNY option

Regret Level8/10

Fix torn trouser knees with iron on patches

Iron on patches didn't last long, started peeling off after 2-3 washes

Regret Level3/10

Cooking from scratch is best for health and economy

Teen complained about lack of easy meal options

Regret Level6/10

yelled at wife for her mistake

yelled at wife for her irresponsible behavior with son behind wheel

Regret Level8/10

Wanted 4 kids, compromised at 2

Grieving being a one and done parent, feeling regret over not having more children

Regret Level8/10

let son's father stay for visit

had unexpected reaction to son's father visit, worried about son feeling abandoned

Regret Level8/10

Preparing for my teenager's college expenses

My child is struggling with financial burden in college

Regret Level4/10

Used physical force to discipline a child

Defended myself against a child's aggressive behavior, possibly causing injury

Regret Level2/10