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@u/stephane_castellani2 days ago · 1-2 years after
2/10
Settled

Plan for AI sales to Salesforce customers

Salesforce bought Cresta, Fin, and Braze

What I wish I knew
Watch for Salesforce bundles
SalesforceAi Customer Service
@u/strawberymermaid3 days ago · 1 year after
2/10
Settled

kept hobby despite age concerns

I continued to enjoy dressing up dolls without societal judgment

What I wish I knew
hobbies should not be dictated by age
HobbiesDoll Collecting
@u/mirrorballmastermind4 days ago · 1 month after
5/10
Mixed

Preparing for ED results

I received rejection from my dream school

What I wish I knew
How to cope with rejection effectively
RejectionSchool
@u/TheHobbyWaitress4 days ago · 25 years after
5/10
Mixed

Fix or sell 'as is'

Purchased 1956 fixer upper, spent $ on renovations

What I wish I knew
Considered resale value before investing
Home RenovationFixer Upper
@u/purplemoonpie4 days ago · this year after
8/10
Regret

transformed my body through diet and exercise

received hurtful comments from friends about my weight loss

What I wish I knew
people might be jealous or insecure about my progress
Weight LossNegative Comments
@u/statai4 days ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Investing in S&P 500 with limited funds

Limited daily buys due to capital controls in China

What I wish I knew
About QDII and foreign exchange quotas
FinanceInvestment
@u/PuzzleheadedAd31385 days ago · 3 months after
8/10
Regret

Moved into consulting after 10 years in industry

Dealing with constant availability is wearing me down

What I wish I knew
Expectations for availability are high
Career ChangeConsulting
@u/NoSkirt15245 days ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

Not getting paid for harvest work

Harvest was ruined, lost half a ton of olives and 2 tons expected to be worse

What I wish I knew
How to prevent such massive losses
FinancialBusiness
@u/Rich_Temperature_7975 days ago · 1 year after
9/10
Severe

let him stay after threat of cops

He refused to leave my house after an argument, and showed up again the next day when I asked him not to.

What I wish I knew
He would disrespect boundaries like this
RelationshipsAbuse
@u/CantaloupeTurbulent65 days ago · 1 year after
7/10
Regret

Want to stop being stuck in entry level HR

Stuck in entry level HR role for 2 years, no clear growth path

What I wish I knew
Considered other roles before getting stuck
CareerStuck In Entry Level
@u/runfreelyactwildly6 days ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Escape into fictional worlds

I often escape into fictional worlds for comfort, but it leaves me with despair.

What I wish I knew
I wish I knew healthier coping mechanisms.
Mental HealthEscapism
@u/lavender-pears6 days ago · 9 am same day after
10/10
Severe

spent 1,110 calories on a drink

blew calorie limit, shocked by drink's calorie count

What I wish I knew
calorie count of drinks before ordering
FoodStarbucks
@u/ScienceNew55446 days ago · years after
8/10
Regret

I started seeking validation from men

I ruined my relationships with men and friendships due to my insecurities

What I wish I knew
self-acceptance and self-worth are key
Mental HealthSelf-Esteem
@u/Capable_Lecture59406 days ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Laid off while on maternity leave

Laid off 1 month after giving birth due to restructuring

What I wish I knew
Research company's restructuring policies
CareerLayoffs
@u/Pretty-Explanation477 days ago · 2 years since leaving partner after
8/10
Regret

Lied to partner about work

Partner's constant questioning and accusations of having a sugar daddy have created a toxic environment, causing me to lie to him about my work and activities

What I wish I knew
How to effectively communicate my boundaries and needs to my partner without feeling guilty or defensive
RelationshipTrust Issues
@u/Due-Confidence-92767 days ago · 1 year into the relationship after
8/10
Regret

Caught boyfriend crying after almost a year together

Caught boyfriend hiding vulnerability and past relationship struggles

What I wish I knew
He's been struggling with trust and self-worth
RelationshipCommunication
@u/Insanopatato7 days ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

Requesting data deletion after rejection

Requesting data deletion after rejection led to dialogue with workers

What I wish I knew
Checking data deletion policies before applying
Job SearchApplication Process
@u/Mulholland_Peaks8 days ago · 1 week after
8/10
Regret

Didn't check shift changes

Missed shift due to lack of communication

What I wish I knew
To check shift changes more regularly
WorkplaceCommunication
@u/Puzzleheaded-Club5148 days ago · 18 months after
10/10
Severe

Moving out of tech career

Failed to find a tech job despite efforts

What I wish I knew
More about non-tech career options
@u/ulquiorraa08 days ago · 2 years after
8/10
Regret

struggled with depression

fell into depression again

What I wish I knew
self-care is crucial
Mental HealthDepression