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RelationshipTrust Issues
#RI-6aeff56b·7 days ago·
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Lookback: 2 years since leaving partner

“Lied to partner about work”

Partner's constant questioning and accusations of having a sugar daddy have created a toxic environment, causing me to lie to him about my work and activities

What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate my boundaries and needs to my partner without feeling guilty or defensive"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care when dealing with a controlling partner"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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