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Decisions about
Relationship.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Relationship. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
Relationship Overview
73%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
377
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Relationship Regret Curve

Detailed aggregate statistics and longitudinal curves for this category are being calculated from the dataset.

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figured out why husband's behavior is hurtful

husband's mean comments and refusal to change hurt me deeply

Regret Level5/10

Slept with ex's best friend

I slept with my ex's best friend after getting her approval.

Regret Level8/10

Lost virginity while blacked out

Lost virginity to ex of friend while drunk and on period, felt disgusted and embarrassed

Regret Level10/10

Moved in with girlfriend despite differing dog rules

Girlfriend's rules for dog caused conflict with me

Regret Level6/10

Trying to help my girlfriend heal

My girlfriend's insecurities and jealousy are draining me, making me feel like I'm losing my mind

Regret Level8/10

Struggled with intimacy for a year

Wondered if ED or lack of attraction to me

Regret Level7/10

Dating a boyfriend with a more stable life

Dating a boyfriend with a more stable life while struggling with my own chaotic past and financial instability

Regret Level5/10

Considering proposing to girlfriend despite anxiety

Feeling anxious about living together due to perceived SO neglect

Regret Level6/10

ended marriage

Moved out, still staying in touch, unlikely to salvage it

Regret Level8/10

message husband's AP to acknowledge her actions

Husband had emotional and physical relationship with AP while deployed, continued after return, and lied about it

Regret Level8/10

ignored husband's urgent message

I missed out on Legend of Zelda concert tickets due to my own negligence

Regret Level8/10

Told boyfriend about tattoo backstory

Boyfriend got jealous, left without a word, and texted me aggressively

Regret Level7/10

Wanting a relationship

Feel romantically deprived, questioned by peers

Regret Level8/10

Didn't notice wife's preparations

Wife let go, used parachute to save herself

Regret Level10/10

Lied to her family before meeting them

She asked me to pretend we'd been together for 6 months at her sister's wedding

Regret Level6/10

To open up to my fiancé about my renewed libido

My libido suddenly came back after trying a new medication, making me nervous to approach my fiancé about it

Regret Level5/10

dated someone I thought was a friend

My husband lied to me about a girl he was in love with before our relationship

Regret Level10/10

left unfaithful partner

Left unfaithful partner, ended toxic relationship

Regret Level10/10

dumped boyfriend for abandoning me

Boyfriend ignored me during a medical emergency and abandoned me when I needed support

Regret Level8/10

Deciding whether to marry without a prenup

Past relationships with financial motivations led to betrayal and loss

Regret Level8/10