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Decisions about
Relationship.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Relationship. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
Relationship Overview
74%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
274
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Relationship Regret Curve

Detailed aggregate statistics and longitudinal curves for this category are being calculated from the dataset.

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Exploring intimacy with girlfriend

Started exploring intimacy, discovered high sexual desires

Regret Level2/10

Moving in with girlfriend after 5 months of dating

Moved in with girlfriend, but struggled with living with roommates and her abusive home situation

Regret Level5/10

Dating a man 13.5 years older

Feeling strange about age gap when I was 26,think he should have handled it differently

Regret Level8/10

Stay close as friends with possibility of relationship later

Her past trauma affects our relationship, causing pressure and fear for her

Regret Level2/10

Had a one week fling with my girlfriend's sister 6 years ago

We had a physical and intimate connection for 6 days, but I never told her about it

Regret Level8/10

Created a prenup with a 6-figure payout per child

My sister reacted negatively and told my parents, who are now pressuring me to call off the wedding

Regret Level8/10

Manage long distance relationship with difficult careers

Frequent work and study conflicts lead to frustration and loneliness

Regret Level6/10

Said no to lending boyfriend £50

I hurt my boyfriend's feelings by not lending him money when he needed it

Regret Level8/10

Discovered girlfriend cheated on her ex fiance

Girlfriend had an affair with previous boyfriend due to 'needing someone by her side during hard times'.

Regret Level8/10

Snooped on husband's phone

Discovered husband texting coworkers, especially one woman

Regret Level8/10

Asked boyfriend to reflect on his friends

Boyfriend's friends are problematic, making jokes about women and belittling others

Regret Level6/10

Waited 4 years for marriage proposal

He proposed, then seemed to backtrack, leaving me uncertain and heartbroken

Regret Level10/10

Want penetrative sex before marriage

Boyfriend avoids discussing sex, yet engages in other intimate activities

Regret Level8/10

Compared boyfriend to his abusive father

Told boyfriend I see his abusive father in him, leading to breakup

Regret Level10/10

To address my partner's comments

My partner's constant body shaming has made me feel insecure and hurt

Regret Level8/10

Separated from husband

Arrested during domestic situation, traumatic experience

Regret Level8/10

Gf's behavior raised my suspicions

My gf's flirting-like behavior made me question her intentions

Regret Level8/10

Considering moving closer

My girlfriend feels distant due to our long distance

Regret Level5/10

Met my soulmate at 22

Met my wife at 22 and knew she was the one

Regret Level1/10

Struggling with intimacy issues

Frustrating sex life, thoughts of infidelity

Regret Level8/10