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#RI-6abba90a·4 months ago·
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Lookback: After 10 years of relationship

“Deciding whether to marry without a prenup”

Past relationships with financial motivations led to betrayal and loss

What I wish I knew
"To distinguish between healthy boundaries and past fears"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the partner's intentions and communicate openly about financial expectations"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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