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Decisions about
Relationships.

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Relationships Overview
72%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
3,333
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Relationships Regret Curve

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Exploring intimacy with girlfriend

Started exploring intimacy, discovered high sexual desires

Regret Level2/10

Ended things with a partner over his reactions to my stimming

I ended things with my partner after he told me to stop stimming, making me feel like I was doing something wrong

Regret Level2/10

married a man-child after 1 month

My husband mentally abused me and planned to leave without talking about divorce

Regret Level10/10

Moving in with girlfriend after 5 months of dating

Moved in with girlfriend, but struggled with living with roommates and her abusive home situation

Regret Level5/10

want to be more self-aware

unintentionally hurt husband's feelings with nitpicking and mean tone

Regret Level8/10

pursue feelings or maintain friendship

I've developed romantic feelings for a close friend, but we have different goals and live in different places

Regret Level8/10

approached a girl at a military ball

met a girl, hugged her twice, but she ignored me

Regret Level8/10

feeling like I have no autonomy in my relationship

My fiancé doesn't trust me, checks my location, and controls my daily activities

Regret Level8/10

Created a prenup with a 6-figure payout per child

My sister reacted negatively and told my parents, who are now pressuring me to call off the wedding

Regret Level8/10

I cheated on my girlfriend while developing feelings for someone else

I ended things with my girlfriend and confessed to the other person, but now I'm torn between pursuing something with him or respecting my ex

Regret Level10/10

Dating a man 13.5 years older

Feeling strange about age gap when I was 26,think he should have handled it differently

Regret Level8/10

Manage long distance relationship with difficult careers

Frequent work and study conflicts lead to frustration and loneliness

Regret Level6/10

Handle in-laws visit alone

Find her annoying, codependent and aggravating

Regret Level8/10

suggest meeting after tennis match

date cancelled due to exam schedule

Regret Level2/10

Developing feelings for a friend while in a relationship

Realized I have feelings for a friend while in a relationship

Regret Level2/10

Had a one week fling with my girlfriend's sister 6 years ago

We had a physical and intimate connection for 6 days, but I never told her about it

Regret Level8/10

Stay close as friends with possibility of relationship later

Her past trauma affects our relationship, causing pressure and fear for her

Regret Level2/10

Got married despite concerns

Husband emotionally abandoned me during postpartum, leading to resentment and anger

Regret Level8/10

Discovered hidden children

Found out partner has 2 kids without being told

Regret Level5/10

let him have space

I unintentionally pressured him and made him feel bad, causing him to lose trust in me

Regret Level10/10