Relationshipsromantic feelings
#RI-69a91563·4 months ago·
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“pursue feelings or maintain friendship”
What Actually Happened
I've developed romantic feelings for a close friend, but we have different goals and live in different places
What I wish I knew
"if I should express my feelings or risk losing our friendship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be honest with yourself and the other person about your intentions"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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