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#RI-69a91039·4 months ago·
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“Moved to new apartment without boyfriend's approval”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend felt frustrated and hurt by my sudden decision to move into a new apartment, feeling like I was trying to mess him up and not considering his financial situation
What I wish I knew
"To communicate more openly and honestly with my boyfriend about my plans and feelings"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be open and honest with your partner about your plans and feelings, and try to consider their perspective and needs"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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