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#RI-69ba774a·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 years together

“want to be more self-aware”

unintentionally hurt husband's feelings with nitpicking and mean tone

What I wish I knew
"how to manage tone when exhausted"
If I could tell you one thing
"be more mindful of communication and tone"
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8/10
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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