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@u/Junior_Adeptness2919about 1 month ago · after 5-7 dates after
8/10
Regret

I want to ask him about sharing info

He shares info about his past, but not mine

What I wish I knew
How to ask without revealing my past
RelationshipsCommunication Issues
@u/skeptical_phoenixabout 1 month ago · 1 week after
9/10
Severe

Broke up with me

He's on my mind on my birthday

What I wish I knew
He'd be gone so soon
RelationshipsBreakup
@u/Youdonthavetoyell765about 1 month ago · Years after
8/10
Regret

My needs aren't taken seriously

I'm constantly belittled and humiliated by my wife and daughter

What I wish I knew
My needs and feelings matter
RelationshipsLack Of Support
@u/Ill_Combination_4923about 1 month ago · 2 years after
8/10
Regret

I stayed in a toxic relationship

I wasn't a good partner and she left me

What I wish I knew
Being with someone who doesn't appreciate me is a waste of time
RelationshipsMoving On From A Breakup
@u/nabong_0about 1 month ago · 3 weeks after
8/10
Regret

Dating someone whose ex just died

She shares many photos of her late ex on social media and keeps a diary about him, making me wonder if I'm just a rebound

What I wish I knew
She was still grieving her ex
RelationshipsDating
@u/Broad-Stage2933about 1 month ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

Dated a man with multiple girlfriends

He had multiple girlfriends, including me, and planned to abandon me after getting me pregnant

What I wish I knew
He had no intention of committing to me
RelationshipsToxic Partner
@u/Flat-Freedom-8753about 1 month ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Reevaluating separation terms

Husband developed feelings for another woman, wants to date her, causing me pain

What I wish I knew
I should not have tried to control the circumstances
RelationshipsMarital Issues
@u/Human_Grocery7142about 1 month ago · Within the next few days after
8/10
Regret

She's too self-centered for me

My girlfriend constantly expects me to prioritize her needs and pay for everything, and when I need space, she harasses me for attention

What I wish I knew
Her true nature sooner
RelationshipsToxic Partner
@u/LengthAnxious1651about 1 month ago · 11 years into marriage after
10/10
Severe

Having kids with wife

Wife revealed she never wanted kids, breaking my heart

What I wish I knew
She was serious about not wanting kids from the start
RelationshipsMarriage
@u/Vegetable_Menu14about 1 month ago · 1 day after
8/10
Regret

Wore Meta glasses at home without discussing with partner

Felt deeply uncomfortable with constant surveillance, felt invaded

What I wish I knew
Had a more open discussion about concerns before buying
RelationshipsCommunication
@u/No_Acadia9113about 1 month ago · 5 years after
8/10
Regret

Had sex with bestfriend partner despite knowing he's in a relationship

Had sex with bestfriend partner multiple times a week for 5 years, keeping it a secret from his girlfriend

What I wish I knew
To consider the consequences of my actions on his relationship and my own well-being
RelationshipsInfidelity
@u/EspressoWithOatMilkabout 1 month ago · in long-term relationship after
2/10
Settled

Setting boundaries with partner's friends

I set clear boundaries with my partner's friends, no issues so far

What I wish I knew
Communicate boundaries earlier in the relationship
RelationshipsBoundaries
@u/PinkBatlemonadeabout 1 month ago · 1 year after
2/10
Settled

block him

He accused me of being untrustworthy after I didn't respond to his message immediately.

What I wish I knew
Being clearer about my boundaries
RelationshipsToxic
@u/artistic_potato170about 1 month ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Trusted my own perception over his

My boyfriend questioned my memory and made me feel like a hypocrite during an argument.

What I wish I knew
To trust my own perception and not let his words affect me so much
RelationshipsCommunication
@u/Key-Assumption-8511about 2 months ago · 1 month after
8/10
Regret

Dating someone who claims casual interest

He expressed interest in settling down, but I'm unsure of his intentions

What I wish I knew
If he's genuinely interested in a relationship or just stringing me along
RelationshipsCasual Dating
@u/Dimarco-Oppoabout 2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Didn't realize manipulative nature

Realized friend was only nice when needed something; stopped being useful and noticed change

What I wish I knew
Watched for signs of manipulation
RelationshipsManipulative Friends
@u/Radiant-Farmer7729about 2 months ago · After the breakup after
5/10
Mixed

Break up over fixable issues

I regret breaking up without addressing issues

What I wish I knew
Communicate problems earlier
RelationshipsBreakups
@u_Constant-Purchase-99about 2 months ago · 1 year after
5/10
Mixed

quit his job to start own business

He's now focusing on his own venture, but it's been tough

What I wish I knew
more about the business's financial stability
RelationshipsBoyfriend'S Career
@u/springdaythoughtsabout 2 months ago · e.g. 40 years after
6/10
Regret

Questioning the existence of lasting love

Rarely seen relationships that last decades

What I wish I knew
If lasting romantic love is actually real
RelationshipsLove And Relationships
@u/Worldly-Pace-2698about 2 months ago · 1 year in relationship after
6/10
Regret

Struggle with trusting partner

Fear of being replaced or losing partner's love

What I wish I knew
Self-worth issues can resurface in relationships
RelationshipsTrust