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@u_Chefdeelectual20 days ago
relationshipsUnfulfilling Marriage
"I stayed in a marriage for the sake of the kids"
I've been sacrificing my own needs and happiness for the sake of my family, but my husband doesn't make an effort to support me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew I deserved better"
Advice

"Don't settle for a relationship that doesn't meet your emotional needs"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Fluffy_Meringue_114420 days ago
relationshipsCommunication
"Deciding when to share feelings with partner"
Often bottle up feelings due to fear of burdening partner or getting a bad reaction
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate effectively in a long-distance relationship"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to express yourself, but also consider your partner's stress levels"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_ColdComprehensive55820 days ago
relationshipsDating
"Asking her out too soon"
I got rejected, but she stayed close and showed affectionate signs
What I wish I knew
"Not to ask her out so soon"
Advice

"Communicate openly and don't rush into things"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_No_Indication457320 days ago
relationshipsTrust
"Boyfriend's online behavior raised doubts"
Found searches for girls from school in boyfriend's Facebook activity log
What I wish I knew
"To be more objective about online behavior"
Advice

"Communicate openly with partner about concerns"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_ashleyheather2321 days ago
relationshipstrust issues
"boyfriend's increasing communication with coworker"
boyfriend's friendly/co-worker interactions made me uncomfortable
What I wish I knew
"how to address the issue constructively"
Advice

"set clear boundaries and communicate openly with partner"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_Conscious_Act_709521 days ago
relationshipsDating
"To be more open-minded in relationships"
My OCD made me anxious and stressed in relationships, causing me to be overly critical and demanding
What I wish I knew
"To accept that my partner's imperfections are not a reflection of their love for me"
Advice

"Be patient and understanding with your partner, and try to find common ground in your cleanliness standards"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_curious_kat__21 days ago
relationshipsLack of affection
"I asked him to call me pretty"
I feel insecure about my looks when he doesn't compliment me
What I wish I knew
"He genuinely didn't realize how much it hurt me"
Advice

"Communicate openly about your needs and feelings"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Mega_Charizard42022 days ago
relationshipsUnhealthy dynamics
"I stayed in a relationship despite feeling uncomfortable with affection"
I feel trapped and anxious in the relationship, struggling to express my feelings
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized my feelings sooner and sought help"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to acknowledge and address your feelings, even if they're uncomfortable"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_throwawaybutmakeitqt22 days ago
relationshipsOpen Relationship
"Fulfilled a sexual fantasy with my partner"
Had a FFM threesome with my boyfriend; enjoyed it
What I wish I knew
"Nothing"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner"

1/10 regret
0
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@u_Constant-Purchase-9923 days ago
relationshipsBoyfriend's Career
"quit his job to start own business"
He's now focusing on his own venture, but it's been tough
What I wish I knew
"more about the business's financial stability"
Advice

"Consider the financial implications before making a drastic change"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Hot_Ad820923 days ago
relationshipsDating
"To try dating again after 2 years"
I'm having trouble attracting my ideal partner, attracting people with undesirable qualities or financial instability
What I wish I knew
"How to attract someone with a stable income and good health insurance"
Advice

"Consider attending events or going out twice a month in a populated city"

5/10 regret
0
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@u_fortheplot-iguess23 days ago
relationshipsDating
"Dating an experienced man without labels"
Dating without labels despite importance of labels to him
What I wish I knew
"He's unsure how to navigate a relationship without sex being a factor"
Advice

"Communicate clearly about expectations and boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Potential_Sugar_988224 days ago
relationshipsFlirting
"Leaving a note on neighbor's car"
Left a note on neighbor's car, unsure of response
What I wish I knew
"Neighbor's reaction and feelings"
Advice

"Be direct and respectful when expressing interest"

2/10 regret
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@u_AvocadoOwner224 days ago
relationshipsCommunication
"I want my husband to understand my feelings about our sex life"
I feel unfulfilled and unsatisfied in our sex life, my husband doesn't seem to care about my pleasure
What I wish I knew
"My husband prioritizes his own pleasure over mine"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your desires and needs"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Professional-Pin434924 days ago
relationshipsDivorce
"Married husband after 12 years together"
Husband wants divorce after 3 months of marriage, feels abandoned
What I wish I knew
"Communicate issues earlier to avoid emotional pain"
Advice

"Seek counseling before making decisions"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_gaelthegal25 days ago
relationshipsFinancial concerns
"Married despite financial incompatibility"
Sister got engaged to financially irresponsible partner
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew more about his financial habits before she got engaged"
Advice

"Don't marry someone who doesn't share your financial values"

9/10 regret
0
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@u_throwaway_shivnation25 days ago
relationshipsAttachment style and communication
"Getting involved with ex after 7 months of no-contact"
My ex's depression and low engagement make me anxious and self-conscious
What I wish I knew
"She might be overwhelmed by rapid communication"
Advice

"Communicate openly about boundaries and needs"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Better-Guava-178625 days ago
relationshipsUnhealthy Patterns
"Stopped talking to a guy with mixed signals"
Ruminating over a guy who contradicted himself and made me feel dejected
What I wish I knew
"I should've seen his red flags sooner"
Advice

"Don't invest in someone who can't be honest with themselves"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_imma-stargirl25 days ago
relationshipsDating
"Dating someone living at home due to financial struggles"
Living at home due to financial struggles has caused me significant anxiety and worry about my future
What I wish I knew
"Being honest about my financial situation earlier in the relationship"
Advice

"Communicate openly about financial struggles and avoid judgment"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Plastic-Candle-359125 days ago
relationshipsTrust Issues
"Expressed discomfort with boyfriend's close female friend"
Felt uncomfortable and small when interacting with boyfriend's female friend, especially after a dramatic reveal at his graduation party
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my feelings without making my boyfriend feel like I don't trust him"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings, and try to understand their perspective as well"

8/10 regret
0