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@u/Pattyblueabout 2 months ago
relationshipsDating
"Text her here and there to keep momentum"
Matched on Bumble, planning date
What I wish I knew
"Communication is key"
Advice

"Don't overthink it"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/Upper_Tomorrow2706about 2 months ago
relationshipsPost-Breakup
"checked ex's Instagram"
Saw deleted photos of us on ex's main account
What I wish I knew
"Why she deleted photos of us"
Advice

"Don't check ex's social media"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/NatureNo5928about 2 months ago
relationshipsUnfulfilling Engagement
"engaged to someone I Regina not sure is right for me"
I've progressively found my fiancée less attractive and annoying, making me feel unhappy about marriage
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if I truly loved her before proposing"
Advice

"Don't stick with a relationship just because it's convenient, prioritize your own happiness"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/memoirofageminiabout 2 months ago
relationshipsDating
"Dating someone who doesn't show intention"
Met on Tinder, went on casual dates, but he didn't show care or interest in me
What I wish I knew
"To be more cautious with online dating"
Advice

"Don't settle for casual dates, look for someone who shows genuine interest"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/TheHungrySoulabout 2 months ago
relationshipsAbuse
"You condoned abusive behavior"
I contributed to women's trauma
What I wish I knew
"Communication is key in relationships"
Advice

"Respect women's boundaries"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/brotalksabout 2 months ago
relationshipsMarriage
"Reconsider past choices"
Reflecting on 10+ years together, I'm unsure if I'd choose her again
What I wish I knew
"More about her long-term goals"
Advice

"Communicate openly about future expectations"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u/mochaaddictzabout 2 months ago
relationshipsCommunication
"Ask boyfriend for flowers on anniversary"
I asked my boyfriend for flowers on our anniversary, and he was fine with it
What I wish I knew
"Maybe gifts aren't as big of a deal as I think"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner about your needs and expectations"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/CitreAngelabout 2 months ago
relationshipsFamily
"Talk to my mother about her behavior towards my girlfriend"
My mother's constant criticism of my girlfriend has damaged our relationship. I feel disrespected and hurt by her negative comments.
What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate my feelings to my mother without escalating the situation"
Advice

"Be honest and direct when expressing your feelings, but also be prepared to listen to your family member's perspective."

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Lazy-Contact-9685about 2 months ago
relationshipsbreakup
"Dealing with my girlfriend cheating on me."
Hey everyone just wanna let you know even if you feel like shit feelings pass just as how you felt before you’ll feel good again. I don’t feel that good rn. Feeling pretty lonely and unlovable ever since my girlfriend cheated on me, but it will pass. Remember that. Just gotta let time do its thing. Healing has its ups and downs. Just stay off social media and try stay positive 💪 submitted by /u/Lazy-Contact-9685 [link] [comments]
What I wish I knew
"N/A"
Advice

"N/A"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u/incrediblemom19about 2 months ago
relationshipsIntimacy
"Sex lasts too long"
Sex goes on too long, want it to end
What I wish I knew
"More foreplay could help"
Advice

"Communicate with partner about needs"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/DemonTime88about 2 months ago
relationshipsGirlfriend issues
"Planned a birthday date"
Got hurt by my girlfriend's response
What I wish I knew
"She was unhappy with me"
Advice

"Communicate openly before planning a date"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Jessicavl7about 2 months ago
relationshipsOne-sided relationships
"I'm always the one chasing love and friendship"
My first love left me after I initiated everything, and now I'm in a friendship where I'm always the one who messages first
What I wish I knew
"how to initiate less and let others take the lead"
Advice

"don't be afraid to stop reaching out and see if the other person will contact you first"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/NumerousBother4494about 2 months ago
relationshipsDating
"Dating someone who constantly brings up their ex"
He brings up his ex in every conversation, making me feel insecure and questioning our relationship
What I wish I knew
"That his constant ex-talk was a sign of unresolved issues"
Advice

"Be cautious of partners who excessively talk about their ex"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u/No_Yard285about 2 months ago
relationshipsMarriage
"Channel extreme marriage kinks safely"
Exploring extreme territory led to health risks and core belief conflicts
What I wish I knew
"We should have prioritized family and safety sooner"
Advice

"Communicate with your partner and set boundaries for safe exploration"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/lethalpicturesabout 2 months ago
relationshipsBreakup
"Lost long-term partner"
Lost loved one, feeling alone and uncertain about finding someone else
What I wish I knew
"How to maintain a healthy relationship"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Business_Pattern9108about 2 months ago
relationshipsTrust
"He wouldn't date me if I had a lot of casual sex"
He's judging my past, it makes me feel insecure
What I wish I knew
"He values loyalty over freedom"
Advice

"Communicate your values and boundaries early on"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/JournalistAdept9209about 2 months ago
relationshipsLong Distance Relationship
"Keeping my relationship private for 7 months"
I've been suppressing my feelings about not being introduced to his friends and family
What I wish I knew
"If he's truly committed to our relationship"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Stunning-Vegetable41about 2 months ago
relationshipsLong Distance Relationship
"Move to be closer physically"
Moved for a relationship that ended, taking a pay cut
What I wish I knew
"More about his commitment to the relationship"
Advice

"Weigh the importance of physical proximity in a relationship"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/420_BiggusDickus_69about 2 months ago
relationshipsConfusion
"Dating a femboy after joking about it"
I found a femboy attractive and started dating him
What I wish I knew
"Not to joke about something I didn't mean"
Advice

"Be honest about your feelings"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/misomyloveabout 2 months ago
relationshipsPost-Breakup Contact
"I keep contacting my ex despite saying I'll stop"
I call him every 2 months when I'm bored, feeling lonely and seeking companionship
What I wish I knew
"I was desperate for human connection"
Advice

"Don't reach out to an ex just to fill a void"

9/10 regret
0