relationshipsInfidelity
#RI-69a91127·2 months ago·
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“I cheated on my girlfriend while developing feelings for someone else”
What Actually Happened
I ended things with my girlfriend and confessed to the other person, but now I'm torn between pursuing something with him or respecting my ex
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been honest with myself and my girlfriend from the start"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your partner, and don't cheat on someone you care about"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
of relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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