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#RI-6adf462e·3 months ago·
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“figured out why husband's behavior is hurtful”

husband's mean comments and refusal to change hurt me deeply

What I wish I knew
"arguments are not just about the issue, but also about respect and empathy"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't blame the other person for not getting over an argument quickly, take responsibility for your own behavior"
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Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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