RelationshipInfidelity
#RI-6aec8b7c·6 months ago·
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“message husband's AP to acknowledge her actions”
What Actually Happened
Husband had emotional and physical relationship with AP while deployed, continued after return, and lied about it
What I wish I knew
"AP's intentions and boundaries"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner and consider counseling"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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