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@u_Lazydayvelvetteen20 days ago
relationshipCommunication
"Talk to him about intimacy issues"
Our physical relationship has almost disappeared, I feel unloved
What I wish I knew
"He was struggling with intimacy issues"
Advice

"Communicate openly about your feelings and needs"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Kind_Boysenberry642420 days ago
relationshipPartnership
"Feeling unappreciated and unsatisfied in relationship"
Girlfriend doesn't contribute financially or with household chores, wants to wait until marriage for intimacy
What I wish I knew
"She had no intention of contributing to the relationship"
Advice

"Communicate financial and emotional expectations clearly"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Embarrassed_Key18820 days ago
relationshipboyfriend
"I'm consistently putting in more effort than him"
I feel taken for granted and drained from always traveling to him and him not prioritizing our time together
What I wish I knew
"He would make more of an effort to prioritize our relationship"
Advice

"Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly to avoid feeling taken for granted"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Helpful-Net811420 days ago
relationshipInfidelity
"Got back with ex too quickly"
Ex rebounded with someone older and sketchy after breakup
What I wish I knew
"Ex was immature and would rebound quickly"
Advice

"Don't rush back into a relationship after a breakup"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_madcre20 days ago
relationshipRomantic
"I fell in love with him"
He's been an amazing partner
What I wish I knew
"Nothing, I'm happy"
Advice

"Find someone like him"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u_artickokoa21 days ago
relationshipPrenuptial Agreement
"I'm asking for a fair prenup to protect my career and assets"
I'm sacrificing my career and assets for my fiancé's military career, but his prenup draft leaves me vulnerable
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to negotiate a fair prenup that protects both of our interests"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to ask for a fair prenup that protects your career and assets, even if it's uncomfortable"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Overall_Candle_435521 days ago
relationshipUnclear Commitment
"Dating someone who doesn't want to commit"
He's treating me like a girlfriend without committing
What I wish I knew
"He's not ready for a relationship"
Advice

"Communicate commitment expectations clearly"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Ok-Excitement-789921 days ago
relationshipBoundary Issues
"Trust my instincts about coworker's intentions"
My wife's coworker has made me uncomfortable with his behavior, including flirting and inappropriate comments
What I wish I knew
"how to communicate boundaries effectively"
Advice

"be cautious of overly friendly coworkers and prioritize your relationship"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_KeyAdhesiveness66621 days ago
relationshipSoulmate
"Met my soulmate at 22"
Met my wife at 22 and knew she was the one
What I wish I knew
"Nothing, I'm grateful for our relationship"
Advice

"Appreciate your partner every day"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Old_Class_998421 days ago
relationshipCommunication
"Told SO it's weird to let guy friend stay over late"
My SO had guy friend over from 9pm to 3am, I felt left out
What I wish I knew
"She communicated better about her plans"
Advice

"Communicate openly with partner about social plans"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Mindless_Attempt23221 days ago
relationshipTrust
"Disclose past coffee date"
My girlfriend is jealous of a girl I knew before us, even though nothing happened between us
What I wish I knew
"Being transparent about past interactions can help prevent jealousy"
Advice

"Be honest about past interactions to build trust in a relationship"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_deleted22 days ago
relationshipFamily
"Married best friend's sister"
Lost childhood friend in motorcycle accident, then married his sister
What I wish I knew
"How to cope with loss"
Advice

"Appreciate loved ones while they're still here"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u_whimsygir22 days ago
relationshipToxic Relationship
"Moved back to ex despite past hurt"
Repeatedly got back together with ex who hurt me, only to get hurt again
What I wish I knew
"Acknowledged my own mistakes and worked on myself before getting back together"
Advice

"Don't get back together with someone who has hurt you multiple times"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ArminLeeFreecss22 days ago
relationshipCommunication
"Boyfriend wants me to move to his country without meeting my family"
Feeling uncomfortable and compromised in the relationship
What I wish I knew
"He would have met my family before asking me to move"
Advice

"Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_conflictedspazmoid22 days ago
relationshipInsecurities
"Ended relationship due to insecurities"
Constantly compared myself to his ex, felt insecure about his past feelings for her
What I wish I knew
"How to manage my insecurities and not let them dictate my relationship"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner about your insecurities and work together to address them"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_conflictedspazmoid23 days ago
relationshipInsecurities
"Ended relationship due to insecurities"
Constantly compared myself to his ex, felt insecure about his love for me
What I wish I knew
"I should have communicated my insecurities with him more openly"
Advice

"Communicate your insecurities with your partner to avoid letting them sabotage the relationship"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_Full-Tax703923 days ago
relationshipAnniversary
"celebrate 10 year anniversary on a tight budget"
cat's death wiped out savings, struggling financially
What I wish I knew
"plan for emergencies"
Advice

"appreciate partners during tough times"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Main-Regards-862623 days ago
relationshipMixed Signals
"Dating someone with mixed signals"
I've been seeing him for a month, but he disappears for days and gives me mixed signals. He's sweet and attentive, but it feels like he's playing games with me. I've been hurt before and I'm getting confused and hurt. I've had to tell him about my cancer and scars, but he's been weird about it. We've had some amazing nights, but it feels like he's not committed to anything. I've suggested meeting up, but he's always canceling or giving me mixed signals. I feel like I'm in the way and that he's not interested in a real relationship. I've had to warm up to intimacy, but he's been incredible in bed. I feel like I'm being played and I don't know what to do.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if he was genuinely interested in me or if he's just playing games. I wish I knew if he's committed to anything or if he's just looking for a booty call. I wish I knew if I'm just being paranoid or if I'm actually being played."
Advice

"Be cautious of people who give you mixed signals. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and communicate your needs. If someone is consistently canceling or giving you mixed signals, it may be a sign that they're not interested in a real relationship. Don't settle for someone who doesn't respect your boundaries or your feelings."

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_DontL1stenToMe23 days ago
relationshipInfidelity
"Snooped on husband's phone"
Discovered husband texting coworkers, especially one woman
What I wish I knew
"How to handle my insecurities"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Southern_Objective7923 days ago
relationshipCommunication
"Dating someone with a daily porn habit"
My boyfriend checks a dedicated porn account daily, which disturbs me. He has a large collection of explicit content and has admitted to wasting time on it and paying for adult services.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew about his porn habits before dating him."
Advice

"Be honest about your habits and values when dating someone."

8/10 regret
0