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@u/Plus_Algae7751about 2 months ago
relationshipPartner Stress
"Feeling drained by partner's stress"
Partner's constant yelling and criticism have caused me to feel exhausted and anxious
What I wish I knew
"How to set boundaries and communicate effectively with my partner"
Advice

"Prioritize self-care and seek support when dealing with a stressful partner"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/purplesomething1about 2 months ago
relationshipbreakup
"ended 9-year relationship"
I still miss him, cry often, and feel miserable
What I wish I knew
"he barely thinks of me"
Advice

"don't get replaced so easily"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/throwthrowaway6481about 2 months ago
relationshipInfidelity
"Trusted him after breakup"
Boyfriend cheated on me, got HIV, lied about it
What I wish I knew
"He was still using Grindr during our breakup"
Advice

"Trust your instincts, don't ignore red flags"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Delirious_Chard_9593about 2 months ago
relationshipLove
"I got married to the love of my life"
I feel incredibly lucky to have met my wife at a party, and we've built a life together, filled with love, laughter, and adventure
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how much love and happiness she would bring into my life"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to take risks and open yourself up to love, it can change your life in the most amazing ways"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/Fit-Computer-2600about 2 months ago
relationshipTrust Issues
"Not sure if I'm overthinking or ignoring my intuition about my boyfriend"
I've noticed my boyfriend might be hiding something on his phone, but he says it's just a misunderstanding
What I wish I knew
"How to trust my intuition without letting anxiety consume me"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner and trust your instincts"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Accomplished_Egg6239about 2 months ago
relationshipLack of Connection
"Struggling to reconnect with my wife"
We've become roommates with no emotional, physical, or romantic connection
What I wish I knew
"How to rekindle our relationship"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner"

9/10 regret
0
Author
@u/BeautifulTiger6530about 2 months ago
relationshipAbusive Partner
"Having second thoughts about abortion after seeing baby on scan"
Boyfriend sent abuse and threats after finding out I'm having second thoughts about abortion
What I wish I knew
"He would react this way"
Advice

"Don't let fear of judgment stop you from making a decision that's right for you"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Prestigious-Elk2623about 2 months ago
relationshipInfidelity
"Husband had emotional affair while I was pregnant"
Husband's emotional affair caused me unbearable pain and betrayal
What I wish I knew
"How to protect myself from emotional abuse"
Advice

"Don't ignore red flags and seek help immediately"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Stuntman208about 2 months ago
relationshipCommunication
"Expressing concerns about lack of intimacy in a 7 year relationship"
I've been trying to initiate sex for years, but she's shown less and less interest, making me feel unwanted and unloved
What I wish I knew
"Finding a way to communicate my feelings without blaming or hurting her"
Advice

"Be honest and open about your feelings, but also listen to her perspective and work together to find a solution"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/HeightElegant7311about 2 months ago
relationshipSex
"gave oral sex while feeling unwell"
felt like throwing up while giving oral sex, managed to swallow it down
What I wish I knew
"how to handle the situation"
Advice

"be honest with your partner"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Life_Blacksmith9688about 2 months ago
relationshipCompatibility
"Deciding whether to stay in a relationship"
Recently went through a difficult week, questioning compatibility
What I wish I knew
"More about his attachment style and needs"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly about needs and expectations"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u/TurgotTNabout 2 months ago
relationshipTrust
"Fiancée went out on a date with a friend without informing me"
Fiancée's actions eroded my trust and made me feel hurt and dismissed
What I wish I knew
"Communicate with me about situations that might affect me"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner to avoid misunderstandings"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/TheFugacityabout 2 months ago
relationshipDating
"Ask her again or not"
We hung out with group, had lunch and matcha together, but she declined ice cream invitation
What I wish I knew
"If she's interested in me romantically"
Advice

"Communicate openly and ask directly about intentions"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Trick-North-1010about 2 months ago
relationshipCommunication
"Feeling frustrated with household responsibilities"
I feel like I'm the only one trying to keep the house clean and functional, and it's taking a toll on me
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my needs and expectations more effectively"
Advice

"Set clear boundaries and expectations with your partner to avoid resentment"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/barestuff44about 2 months ago
relationshipTrust
"Overheard girlfriend's conversation"
Overheard girlfriend saying she stays with me for sex
What I wish I knew
"She might not be committed to me"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/ComprehensiveSet9362about 2 months ago
relationshipTrust Issues
"I overheard my husband talking to a friend about his feelings for another woman"
I feel insecure and betrayed by my husband's conversation, I'm not sure if he's cheating or not
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if my husband truly loves me or if he's just being kind"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner and address any issues before they become too big to handle"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Affectionate_Ear17about 2 months ago
relationshipBreakup
"Dated ex for 3 years"
Ex suddenly stopped loving me and moved on, citing no reason
What I wish I knew
"She didn't love me"
Advice

"Trust your feelings and communicate openly"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/tardnagabout 2 months ago
relationshipTrust
"Not watching the full video"
My boyfriend recorded me without consent, making me feel disgusting and angry
What I wish I knew
"He would violate my trust like this"
Advice

"Don't ignore your instincts or dismiss your feelings"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Zestyclose_Web_4185about 2 months ago
relationshipCommunication
"I shouted at my girlfriend when she asked me why I was in a bad mood"
I regret shouting at my girlfriend and causing tension in our relationship. I should have been more patient and understanding, especially when she was going through a tough time with her father's accident
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been more empathetic and aware of her feelings"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and try to understand their perspective, even when you're feeling upset or frustrated"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/CommunityAny4796about 2 months ago
relationshipCommunication
"Struggling to maintain household chores and communication with partner"
I'm exhausted from doing all household chores and feel resentful towards my partner for not contributing. We have frequent fights and our communication has become strained. I feel like I'm carrying the burden of taking care of our home and pets, while my partner seems to be ignoring my needs and efforts.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to communicate my needs and feelings more effectively to my partner, and how to set boundaries and expectations for our household responsibilities."
Advice

"Don't be afraid to speak up and communicate your needs and feelings to your partner. Set clear boundaries and expectations for your household responsibilities, and make sure to listen to each other's perspectives and concerns."

8/10 regret
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