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7 MATCHING
@u/spdcbrabout 1 month ago · tomorrow after
1/10
Settled

being vulnerable with girlfriend

she's been quiet/unresponsive lately

What I wish I knew
asked about breakup directly
RelationshipBreakup
@u/pev20003 months ago · 6 months after
2/10
Settled

moved on from toxic relationship

Ended 2 year relationship after realizing it was toxic

What I wish I knew
Relationships don't last forever
RelationshipToxic
@u/Formal_Contact13293 months ago · almost a year after
8/10
Regret

can't meet boyfriend's demands

Feeling mentally exhausted from constant demands for attention. Missing out on college experience due to prioritizing boyfriend's needs over my own.

What I wish I knew
His need for constant attention was a sign of deeper issues
RelationshipBoyfriend Issues
@u/noguarantee114 months ago · twice after
10/10
Severe

went back to toxic partner

went back to partner twice, regretted it

What I wish I knew
don't go back
RelationshipToxic
@u/Pylon_Bard95 months ago · 1-2 dates after
8/10
Regret

judging someone after one incident

Witnessed date's rude behavior to waiter, felt embarrassed and uncomfortable

What I wish I knew
His true personality and behavior under pressure
RelationshipRed Flag
@u/bullkelpbuster6 months ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

married him despite past

hated self after discovering affair

What I wish I knew
red flags were ignored
RelationshipInfidelity
@u/Kaleidoscope7976166 months ago · 6 months after
8/10
Regret

dated someone with unhealthy dynamics

I'm in a long distance relationship with a man who has controlling tendencies and gets mad at me for not involving myself in his life

What I wish I knew
I should have prioritized my own feelings and boundaries from the start
RelationshipUnhealthy Dynamics