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#RI-6ac47296·6 months ago·
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“dated someone with unhealthy dynamics”

I'm in a long distance relationship with a man who has controlling tendencies and gets mad at me for not involving myself in his life

What I wish I knew
"I should have prioritized my own feelings and boundaries from the start"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners who make you feel suffocated or belittled"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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