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#RI-6aca2763·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 1-2 dates

“judging someone after one incident”

Witnessed date's rude behavior to waiter, felt embarrassed and uncomfortable

What I wish I knew
"His true personality and behavior under pressure"
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and don't ignore red flags, even if they seem minor"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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