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#RI-6aef1962·5 days ago·
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“let him stay after threat of cops”

He refused to leave my house after an argument, and showed up again the next day when I asked him not to.

What I wish I knew
"He would disrespect boundaries like this"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and be willing to enforce them"
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9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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