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#RI-6aec8afc·7 days ago·
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Lookback: 1 year into the relationship

“Caught boyfriend crying after almost a year together”

Caught boyfriend hiding vulnerability and past relationship struggles

What I wish I knew
"He's been struggling with trust and self-worth"
If I could tell you one thing
"Approach with empathy, give space, and validate feelings"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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