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#RI-69a912df·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1-2 years

Wanting kids despite boyfriend's opposition

My boyfriend and I may grow apart due to differing priorities

What I wish I knew
"Communicate expectations more effectively from the start"
If I could tell you one thing
"Discuss long-term goals and compromise on parenting decisions"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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