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@u/galacticbeesabout 1 month ago · when he's in his teens after
8/10
Regret

decide when to tell my son about his twin

lost twin during pregnancy, kept secret

What I wish I knew
considered his emotional readiness
ParentingTwin Pregnancy
@u/One-Food4957about 1 month ago · 1 weekend after
5/10
Mixed

read daughter's texts to ensure safety

read texts about suicidal friend, reported to school

What I wish I knew
how to reassure daughter of confidentiality
ParentingTeenage Daughter
@u/WyfObathabout 1 month ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Told school about son's friend's threat

Told school about son's friend's threat, now worried about social fallout

What I wish I knew
How to handle the situation without damaging friendships
ParentingSchool
@u/WhootiePieabout 2 months ago · trick-or-treat night after
2/10
Settled

told him to take something

my 5 year old declined treats after peeking through bowls

What I wish I knew
he might be more stubborn than I thought
ParentingDiscipline
@u/NightOwlNetworkYTabout 2 months ago · 6 days after
8/10
Regret

gave up pacifier too quickly

My 20 month old cries when laid down, refuses to sleep in crib, and screams bloody murder

What I wish I knew
how to taper off pacifier smoothly
ParentingPotty Training
@u/Expensive_Golf_7772about 2 months ago · one weekend after
8/10
Regret

taking over weekend childcare

managing two kids alone was harder than expected

What I wish I knew
planning ahead and having backup plans
ParentingChildcare
@u/Sacramentardoabout 2 months ago · 5 games after
10/10
Severe

forcing soccer on my child

My child refuses to play soccer despite initial enthusiasm

What I wish I knew
he might have genuine fears or concerns
ParentingSports
@u/MongooseVomitabout 2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

failed to protect daughter

My daughter was harassed by men at a pizza place. I let it happen, and I should've stood up for her.

What I wish I knew
to stand up for my child in that moment
ParentingChild Safety
@u/neo54382 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

proving myself to my child

I fell off a ropes course obstacle and dislocated my shoulder while trying to prove I was capable

What I wish I knew
don't be so competitive
ParentingOverconfidence
@u/PMSwaha2 months ago · 1 year after
2/10
Settled

chose private school over public

son asked why I drive old car

What I wish I knew
how to shield him from materialism
ParentingPrivate School
@u/OptimusSublime3 months ago · today after
2/10
Settled

letting toddler mix Play-Doh colors

watched toddler mix colors, stopped worrying about preserving original colors

What I wish I knew
letting go is easier than I thought
ParentingLetting Go
@u/HATDOGUSERNi3 months ago · by next birthday after
6/10
Regret

spend less on gifts

purchased unwanted gifts, wasted money

What I wish I knew
asked child for input
ParentingGift-Giving
@u/just_sum_guy13 months ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

potty training for kid 1

potty trained kid 1 successfully

What I wish I knew
nothing
ParentingPotty Training
@u/RealKenny3 months ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

got daughter's first report card

felt proud of daughter's progress

What I wish I knew
nothing
ParentingChild Development
@u/MLEthree4 months ago · before play date
2/10
Settled

Ask parents about guns in the house

Saw guns at friend's teacher party, now cautious

What I wish I knew
More about household safety
ParentingPlay Dates
@u/Round-Winter-60824 months ago · 1 year after
3/10
Mixed

raising kids while traveling

I struggled to balance work and childcare on the road

What I wish I knew
how to plan for kid-friendly accommodations
ParentingLifestyle
@u/MableXeno4 months ago · 1 year after
2/10
Settled

handling Santa reveal

My 11 year old still believes in Santa

What I wish I knew
how to handle the truth reveal
ParentingSanta
@u/Sactoho5 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

I planned for a different life

Became a single mom to a high support needs autistic kid, lifestyle changed drastically

What I wish I knew
Being a single mom to a child with special needs is extremely challenging
ParentingSingle Motherhood
@u/SwordfishPretend87396 months ago · 2 years after
8/10
Regret

Tried various potty training methods

Son refuses to use toilet, throws tantrums and becomes violent

What I wish I knew
Why my child's behavior changed after preschool
ParentingPotty Training
@u/Defiant_Witness35417 months ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

called an ambulance

My 3 year old had a severe croup attack and turned blue

What I wish I knew
what croup symptoms to look out for
ParentingHealth