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@u_uniformcasino26 days ago
parentingPostpartum Anxiety
"Constantly trying to please husband's excessive demands"
Husband's anxiety is causing strain on our relationship and my ability to care for our daughter
What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate with my husband and set boundaries"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner and prioritize self-care to avoid burnout"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Plus_Marzipan910527 days ago
parentingEmotional Support
"To seek guidance on emotional support from family"
My parents' constant criticism and lack of emotional support have made me feel drained and anxious
What I wish I knew
"Setting boundaries and prioritizing my own emotional well-being is crucial"
Advice

"Communicate your needs clearly and assertively with your family members"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Complex-Truth461128 days ago
parentingMotherhood
"struggling to balance work and family life"
I'm short-tempered and exhausted, never connecting with my kids
What I wish I knew
"how to prioritize my family's needs"
Advice

"set realistic expectations and ask for help"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Repulsive_Attempt17528 days ago
parentingToxic Parenting
"Raised myself and siblings with unhealthy habits"
My parents' neglect and bullying led to extreme depression and OCD. I'm exhausted and regret making unhealthy choices for my siblings, especially my brother, who's now getting bad grades due to my parents' influence.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how to set boundaries and prioritize my own well-being, especially during my childhood."
Advice

"To anyone in a similar situation, prioritize self-care and seek help if you're struggling with toxic parents or family dynamics."

10/10 regret
0
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@u_sharkvannah_about 1 month ago
parentingToddler activities
"Started making snack boxes for toddlers"
Reduced food waste, introduced variety in diet
What I wish I knew
"None"
Advice

"Try making snack boxes for kids"

1/10 regret
0
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@u_enjoyer-of-sludgeabout 1 month ago
parentingChild Custody
"Refusing to go with abusive father"
My father's abuse worsened after joint custody, causing me to fail classes and suffer medical neglect
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew about the court's lack of support for victims of abuse"
Advice

"Don't ignore abuse, report it and seek help"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@li_dr_elena_chirikhinaabout 1 month ago
parentingDecisionMaking
"Support children's autonomy"
Projected regrets onto my children
What I wish I knew
"Listen more, judge less"
Advice

"Empower children with guidance"

4/10 regret
0
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@u_Relevant-Key4610about 2 months ago
parentingSeparation
"Discussing separation with kids"
My sensitive 9-year-old son felt anxious and upset when told about our separation, but I wish I had prepared him better
What I wish I knew
"Preparing him separately beforehand might have helped him cope better"
Advice

"Be honest and clear with your kids, and consider preparing them separately beforehand if they're sensitive"

5/10 regret
0
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@u_Silver_Archer53292 months ago
parentingAbusive Father
"I chose to have children with an abusive partner"
My children suffered emotional trauma due to their father's abuse and neglect
What I wish I knew
"I should have prioritized their well-being over my own needs"
Advice

"Trust your instincts and prioritize your children's safety"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_bane1452 months ago
parentingchild labor
"Failed to act when seeing a child selling toys"
Saw a 7-10 year old girl selling toys in front of a supermarket, felt disgusted and helpless
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how to act in that situation"
Advice

"If you see a child in a similar situation, try to find a way to help them safely"

8/10 regret
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