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#RI-69f874fe·7 months ago·
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“Moving within NJ without ex's consent”

Moved to NJ to escape NYC, but still expensive and traumatic

What I wish I knew
"I should have left NYC sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set boundaries and prioritize your own healing"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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