RelationshipsToddlerhood
#RI-6a23ca9b·8 months ago·
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“Wanted 4 kids, compromised at 2”
What Actually Happened
Grieving being a one and done parent, feeling regret over not having more children
What I wish I knew
"Maybe I would have complained less during pregnancy"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Respect your partner's decision, but also acknowledge your own feelings"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
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