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#RI-6a23ca9b·6 months ago·
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Wanted 4 kids, compromised at 2

Grieving being a one and done parent, feeling regret over not having more children

What I wish I knew
"Maybe I would have complained less during pregnancy"
If I could tell you one thing
"Respect your partner's decision, but also acknowledge your own feelings"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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