RelationshipsAbusive Father
#RI-69ba7b9f·6 months ago·
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“I chose to have children with an abusive partner”
What Actually Happened
My children suffered emotional trauma due to their father's abuse and neglect
What I wish I knew
"I should have prioritized their well-being over my own needs"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and prioritize your children's safety"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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