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#RI-69ba7add·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 years after initial custody decision

“Refusing to go with abusive father”

My father's abuse worsened after joint custody, causing me to fail classes and suffer medical neglect

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew about the court's lack of support for victims of abuse"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore abuse, report it and seek help"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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