parentingChild Custody
#RI-69ba7add·4 months ago·
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“Refusing to go with abusive father”
What Actually Happened
My father's abuse worsened after joint custody, causing me to fail classes and suffer medical neglect
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew about the court's lack of support for victims of abuse"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore abuse, report it and seek help"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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parenting Category
29
parenting decisions logged. Avg regret 6.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
62%
of parenting decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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