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Decisions about
Marriage.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Marriage. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
Marriage Overview
80%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
58
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Marriage Regret Curve

Detailed aggregate statistics and longitudinal curves for this category are being calculated from the dataset.

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Recent Submissions in Marriage

married a man-child after 1 month

My husband mentally abused me and planned to leave without talking about divorce

Regret Level10/10

Setting boundaries with wife's behavior

Wife disregarded my requests to change clothes, making me uncomfortable

Regret Level8/10

My wife started her own business on a streaming app

My wife's increasing intimacy with others on the streaming app made me feel disregarded and betrayed

Regret Level10/10

Crossed serious boundaries with sister-in-law and engaged in unhealthy coping behaviors

I allowed an emotionally inappropriate dynamic to develop with my sister-in-law and engaged in secret escort use, causing deep shame and regret

Regret Level10/10

Approach divorce with family and kids first

Living in guest room for 7-8 years due to wife's rage and verbal abuse

Regret Level8/10

pursue true love after 30 years of marriage

I'm miserable in my marriage and lonely, missing true love

Regret Level5/10

Ended our 14-year marriage

We're still living together, but can't move on

Regret Level8/10

married someone with hidden issues

married an abusive partner, hid issues from family

Regret Level10/10

I've been ignoring my husband's behavior

I feel like we're just roommates, not partners

Regret Level8/10

divorce considered after 16 years

feeling depressed, sad, and mad due to lack of attention and happiness in marriage

Regret Level8/10

I married a stressed husband

My husband's stress affects our family life and my own well-being

Regret Level8/10

Impulsive marriage after a month of dating

Ex-husband's sudden change in interests and desire for an open relationship led to my decision to end the marriage

Regret Level10/10

Seeking understanding in marriage

I feel disconnected from my partner

Regret Level3/10

My husband faked fainting after I gave birth

His behaviour made me feel extremely lonely and lost, but talking about it led him to reflect on himself and change

Regret Level5/10

I stayed in a toxic relationship

He cheated on me with a female coworker, lied about it, and destroyed our marriage

Regret Level10/10

married a gambler knowingly

She lost pretty badly three times, affecting our finances and relationship

Regret Level8/10

Thought we'd talked about everything

Realized we never discussed parenting decisions, boundaries, daily life, living situations

Regret Level8/10

Separated from wife for safety

Wife physically attacked me during argument, son present

Regret Level8/10

Choosing between marriage and PhD

I regret not considering long-term implications of both choices

Regret Level5/10

Trying to save marriage after 12 years

Wife still can't trust me, love me or understand me

Regret Level8/10