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Decisions about
Marriage.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Marriage. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
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Marriage Overview
77%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
83
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Marriage Regret Curve

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Recent Submissions in Marriage

Trusted my husband's initial denial

Found a flavored condom wrapper on the bathroom floor, my husband lied about it being my son's

Regret Level9/10

Decide future of marriage

My husband cheated on me with multiple women

Regret Level10/10

Staying in a dead marriage

Husband's lack of participation and affection has made me feel invisible and unloved

Regret Level8/10

Split finances 50/50 despite income disparity

Feeling financially isolated in marriage, exhausted from overtime

Regret Level8/10

asked husband to do chores

husband didn't do laundry and dishes after I asked

Regret Level8/10

staying in unhappy marriage

I stayed in a marriage that was damaged beyond repair, prolonging my suffering

Regret Level10/10

carried mental load for PhD

Tired of carrying mental load, resenting dissertation work

Regret Level8/10

deal with current wife's demands

Current wife told me to stop asking for alimony, citing stress on my ex due to cancer

Regret Level8/10

Wife asked for divorce

Treated poorly during mental health struggles

Regret Level10/10

Married without discussing expectations

Husband changed after marriage, became critical and controlling

Regret Level8/10

suspicion of infidelity

My wife's unusual grooming before a work trip raised my suspicion of infidelity

Regret Level8/10

waiting or leaving wife

Wife expressed doubts about our marriage and love for me, then changed her mind

Regret Level8/10

Drawing boundaries with spouse's close friendship

Spouse developed close friendship with coworker, leading to emotional closeness and private communication

Regret Level6/10

choosing myself after affair

My husband had an affair, lied about it, and hid his true behavior from me

Regret Level8/10

Started charging Bob for life admin tasks

Still doing life admin tasks for ex-husband, started charging for time

Regret Level2/10

decided to stay in troubled marriage

Husband left me after 4 weeks of discussing starting a family, blindsided me with no effort to rekindle feelings

Regret Level10/10

Expected wife to demonstrate initiative after years of asking

Felt alone and undesired in marriage despite being a good parent and partner

Regret Level8/10

Married despite emotional infidelity

Emotionally cheated on, lost self

Regret Level10/10

married without clear communication

I feel unappreciated and overworked in my marriage

Regret Level9/10

agreed to reconcile

Spent several nights with ex in staff lodging while I was away for work

Regret Level8/10