Relationshipsboundary issues
#RI-69ba7948·6 months ago·
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“Crossed serious boundaries with sister-in-law and engaged in unhealthy coping behaviors”
What Actually Happened
I allowed an emotionally inappropriate dynamic to develop with my sister-in-law and engaged in secret escort use, causing deep shame and regret
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had addressed my issues properly and communicated openly with my wife"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your partner about your struggles and seek help when needed"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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