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#RI-69ba782d·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year after having a child

I married a stressed husband

My husband's stress affects our family life and my own well-being

What I wish I knew
"I should've discussed parenting roles before having kids"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate with your partner about parenting responsibilities"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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