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@u/KN-KYUabout 1 month ago
marriageinfidelity
"married him after 9 years"
He cheated on me emotionally and lied about his past relationships, and now he has a Tinder profile
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew about his past infidelity before marrying him"
Advice

"Be cautious of people who lie and cheat, even if they seem perfect"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Opening-Cupcake-3287about 1 month ago
marriageunhappy relationship
"stayed in unhappy marriage"
I've felt miserable with my husband, blamed work and now homeschooling for my discontentment
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd left the marriage sooner"
Advice

"Consider seeking help and possibly leaving an unhappy relationship"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Economy_Row2708about 1 month ago
marriagedivorce
"left partner after argument"
left partner, they're pregnant with roommate's child
What I wish I knew
"asked about pregnancy before leaving"
Advice

"communicate openly before making decisions"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/No-Brilliant-1478about 1 month ago
marriageunhappy
"Want a divorce due to unbearable marriage"
Marriage is physically making me sick, depression at all-time low
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew I deserved better"
Advice

"Don't stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of others"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Either-Broccoli9511about 1 month ago
marriageabusive
"I stayed in the marriage"
My wife's behavior is toxic and abusive, causing me emotional distress
What I wish I knew
"I should have left her sooner"
Advice

"Don't stay in an abusive relationship"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_Longjumping_Lemon6587 months ago
marriagetrust issues
"I stayed in a toxic relationship"
He cheated on me with a female coworker, lied about it, and destroyed our marriage
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had seen the signs of his infidelity earlier"
Advice

"Trust your instincts and don't ignore red flags in your relationship"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_bbbbbbbbbb8887 months ago
marriageCommunication
"To work on relationship issues"
My husband's excessive gaming and lack of accountability caused tension in our relationship
What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate with him about his gaming habits"
Advice

"Seek counseling together to address underlying issues"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Regular_Visit44807 months ago
marriageCommunication
"Thought we'd talked about everything"
Realized we never discussed parenting decisions, boundaries, daily life, living situations
What I wish I knew
"To have these conversations before marriage"
Advice

"Communicate openly about everything before getting married"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_No_Assignment23588 months ago
marriagecommunication
"I've been ignoring my husband's behavior"
I feel like we're just roommates, not partners
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was having an affair with our coworker"
Advice

"Don't ignore your partner's behavior, address it"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ErisInChains8 months ago
marriagemultiple marriages
"Waiting until almost 40 to marry"
Friend made a snide comment about waiting long to marry
What I wish I knew
"Whether it's normal to wait so long"
Advice

"Don't let others dictate your life choices"

2/10 regret
0
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@li_nike_dickson-amusa9 months ago
marriageControl Issues
"Don't project insecurity"
My constant need to control suffocated my partner
What I wish I knew
"Insecurity is a personal issue, not a partner's problem"
Advice

"Communicate openly and respect each other's choices"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_sheislost929 months ago
marriagefailed
"left him after miscarriage & cancer"
verbally abused him during pregnancy & first months of daughter's life
What I wish I knew
"appreciate him more"
Advice

"don't take your partner for granted"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_Left-Narwhal14049 months ago
marriageCommunication
"Allowed husband's friends' wives to exclude me"
Husband's friends' wives are frosty and excluding me, my husband doesn't address the issue
What I wish I knew
"He would stand up for me in this situation"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner about issues like this"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_PerfectConstant11209 months ago
marriageUnhappy
"stayed in unhappy marriage"
felt unsafe around husband, extremely distressed
What I wish I knew
"found a place for temporary separation"
Advice

"seek help immediately, don't stay in abusive situation"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Dull-Profit-57279 months ago
marriageinfidelity
"gave wife time after infidelity"
wife cheated, refused to cut off friend
What I wish I knew
"cutting off friend was key"
Advice

"communicate openly about boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_InsideImplement79 months ago
marriagerecovery
"trying to save marriage"
Discovered husband's infidelity and considered divorce
What I wish I knew
"Addressed issues sooner"
Advice

"Seek therapy and communication"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_FunParsley829310 months ago
marriagecommunication
"I want a divorce"
I've mentally checked out of my marriage due to his lack of effort and support, leading to a breakdown in our relationship and my emotional burnout
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd addressed our issues sooner"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and don't be afraid to seek help when needed"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Ghost_Peanut_31510 months ago
marriagecommunication issues
"I'm over my marriage"
I've been shouldering all household responsibilities, feeling exhausted and resentful. My husband's lack of effort and support has made me question our future together.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how much his behavior would affect me and our relationship before we got married."
Advice

"Don't ignore the warning signs in your relationship and communicate openly with your partner about your needs and concerns."

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_SeegzyRedditRead11 months ago
marriagealcoholism
"gave in to drinking"
drinking led to divorce plans
What I wish I knew
"support from partner is crucial for sobriety"
Advice

"seek help for addiction before it's too late"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_Homelessvegetarianl211 months ago
marriageabusive
"jumped into marriage too soon and too young"
I was physically and mentally abused in my marriage, and I forgave my partner multiple times despite their infidelity and lack of respect for me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had waited longer to get married and evaluated my partner more thoroughly"
Advice

"Don't rush into marriage and prioritize your own emotional well-being"

10/10 regret
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