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@u_Longjumping_Lemon65821 days ago
marriagetrust issues
"I stayed in a toxic relationship"
He cheated on me with a female coworker, lied about it, and destroyed our marriage
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had seen the signs of his infidelity earlier"
Advice

"Trust your instincts and don't ignore red flags in your relationship"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_bbbbbbbbbb88821 days ago
marriageCommunication
"To work on relationship issues"
My husband's excessive gaming and lack of accountability caused tension in our relationship
What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate with him about his gaming habits"
Advice

"Seek counseling together to address underlying issues"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Regular_Visit448021 days ago
marriageCommunication
"Thought we'd talked about everything"
Realized we never discussed parenting decisions, boundaries, daily life, living situations
What I wish I knew
"To have these conversations before marriage"
Advice

"Communicate openly about everything before getting married"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_No_Assignment235822 days ago
marriagecommunication
"I've been ignoring my husband's behavior"
I feel like we're just roommates, not partners
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was having an affair with our coworker"
Advice

"Don't ignore your partner's behavior, address it"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ErisInChains22 days ago
marriagemultiple marriages
"Waiting until almost 40 to marry"
Friend made a snide comment about waiting long to marry
What I wish I knew
"Whether it's normal to wait so long"
Advice

"Don't let others dictate your life choices"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@li_nike_dickson-amusa24 days ago
marriageControl Issues
"Don't project insecurity"
My constant need to control suffocated my partner
What I wish I knew
"Insecurity is a personal issue, not a partner's problem"
Advice

"Communicate openly and respect each other's choices"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_sheislost9225 days ago
marriagefailed
"left him after miscarriage & cancer"
verbally abused him during pregnancy & first months of daughter's life
What I wish I knew
"appreciate him more"
Advice

"don't take your partner for granted"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Left-Narwhal140425 days ago
marriageCommunication
"Allowed husband's friends' wives to exclude me"
Husband's friends' wives are frosty and excluding me, my husband doesn't address the issue
What I wish I knew
"He would stand up for me in this situation"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner about issues like this"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_PerfectConstant112025 days ago
marriageUnhappy
"stayed in unhappy marriage"
felt unsafe around husband, extremely distressed
What I wish I knew
"found a place for temporary separation"
Advice

"seek help immediately, don't stay in abusive situation"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Dull-Profit-572726 days ago
marriageinfidelity
"gave wife time after infidelity"
wife cheated, refused to cut off friend
What I wish I knew
"cutting off friend was key"
Advice

"communicate openly about boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_InsideImplement726 days ago
marriagerecovery
"trying to save marriage"
Discovered husband's infidelity and considered divorce
What I wish I knew
"Addressed issues sooner"
Advice

"Seek therapy and communication"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_FunParsley829327 days ago
marriagecommunication
"I want a divorce"
I've mentally checked out of my marriage due to his lack of effort and support, leading to a breakdown in our relationship and my emotional burnout
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd addressed our issues sooner"
Advice

"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and don't be afraid to seek help when needed"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Ghost_Peanut_31527 days ago
marriagecommunication issues
"I'm over my marriage"
I've been shouldering all household responsibilities, feeling exhausted and resentful. My husband's lack of effort and support has made me question our future together.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how much his behavior would affect me and our relationship before we got married."
Advice

"Don't ignore the warning signs in your relationship and communicate openly with your partner about your needs and concerns."

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_SeegzyRedditRead29 days ago
marriagealcoholism
"gave in to drinking"
drinking led to divorce plans
What I wish I knew
"support from partner is crucial for sobriety"
Advice

"seek help for addiction before it's too late"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Homelessvegetarianl230 days ago
marriageabusive
"jumped into marriage too soon and too young"
I was physically and mentally abused in my marriage, and I forgave my partner multiple times despite their infidelity and lack of respect for me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had waited longer to get married and evaluated my partner more thoroughly"
Advice

"Don't rush into marriage and prioritize your own emotional well-being"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_WeatheredCompassabout 1 month ago
marriageunhappy marriage
"pursue true love after 30 years of marriage"
I'm miserable in my marriage and lonely, missing true love
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if the grass is greener on the other side"
Advice

"Don't settle for an unhappy marriage, seek true love"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u_OtherFlower3705about 1 month ago
marriagetoxic relationship
"I'm losing myself in a toxic relationship"
I'm trapped in a relationship with a husband who has anger issues, narcissistic traits, and depression, and I'm sacrificing my own career and happiness to support him
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to set boundaries and prioritize my own needs"
Advice

"Don't stay in a relationship that's slowly draining your life; seek help and prioritize your own happiness"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Quick_run_5968about 1 month ago
marriagecommunication
"working on self-improvement"
My wife feels hurt and dismissed, and is considering giving up on our marriage
What I wish I knew
"communication and emotional safety are crucial in relationships"
Advice

"be patient and consistent in making positive changes"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_DivorceCoachGioabout 1 month ago
marriagecompatibility
"Being good spouse doesn't guarantee good marriage"
Marriage felt distant and unfulfilling despite efforts
What I wish I knew
"Compatibility is key, not just being good"
Advice

"Effort alone may not be enough, sometimes it just doesn't align"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Such-Lab735about 1 month ago
marriageunhappy
"I'm unhappy with my marriage"
My wife's health and mental issues have created a lot of stress and resentment in our relationship
What I wish I knew
"how to handle her co-dependency and lack of independence"
Advice

"communicate openly and seek professional help together"

8/10 regret
0