marriageex-husband's affair
#RI-6ae5d6ae·15 days ago·
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“deal with current wife's demands”
What Actually Happened
Current wife told me to stop asking for alimony, citing stress on my ex due to cancer
What I wish I knew
"court payment system would protect me from communicating with ex"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't let others dictate your financial decisions"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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marriage Category
28
marriage decisions logged. Avg regret 8.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
93%
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