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marriagetoxic husband
#RI-6ac5c8bb·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years after leaving

“I stayed in a decade-long marriage to a Latino man who expected me to do everything for him”

I tolerated his behavior for years, but now I'm happy being single and planning activities without considering his schedule

What I wish I knew
"men who expect others to do everything for them are not modern or respectful"
If I could tell you one thing
"set boundaries and don't tolerate abusive behavior in relationships"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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