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#RI-6a7aaa29·4 months ago·
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“Considering marriage after a decade together”
What Actually Happened
Feeling trapped in a relationship that stifles personal growth and freedom
What I wish I knew
"I should've ended it earlier"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Know your own desires and don't settle for a life that's not yours"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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