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#RI-6a7aaa29·22 days ago·
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Considering marriage after a decade together

Feeling trapped in a relationship that stifles personal growth and freedom

What I wish I knew
"I should've ended it earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Know your own desires and don't settle for a life that's not yours"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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