relationshipsmarriage
#RI-69f873fa·5 months ago·
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“I pushed for marriage and a baby with him.”
What Actually Happened
I married and had a baby with a man who showed many toxic red flags while we were dating. Now, six weeks after I gave birth, he says the marriage is over.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known that marriage and a baby would not fix his toxic behavior or our relationship problems."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
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Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
of relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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