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#RI-69a91684·4 months ago·
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Lookback: Next year after youngest kid leaves for college

“Approach divorce with family and kids first”

Living in guest room for 7-8 years due to wife's rage and verbal abuse

What I wish I knew
"Managing household finances and seeking professional help sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider counseling and develop a support system before initiating divorce"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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