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#RI-69a91355·2 months ago·
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Lookback: After having a kid

Thought we'd talked about everything

Realized we never discussed parenting decisions, boundaries, daily life, living situations

What I wish I knew
"To have these conversations before marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about everything before getting married"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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