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Decisions about
Abuse.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Abuse. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
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Abuse Overview
88%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
25
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Abuse Regret Curve

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I refused to believe I was abused

My partner consistently gaslighted and manipulated me, causing me to doubt my own sanity

Regret Level8/10

I stayed in an unhappy marriage

My husband started taunting me after we separated, posting on social media with a man who had sexually harassed and stalked me

Regret Level10/10

dunked mother's washcloth in toilet

acted out revenge after being threatened

Regret Level2/10

left abusive partner

ex was verbally abusive and used lawyers to harass me

Regret Level10/10

divorced abusive husband

My ex-husband became abusive, and I had to protect my kids by switching churches and getting a social worker to aid communication.

Regret Level5/10

I punched a man after he choked me

I pursued justice in the legal system, getting him indicted and a protection order against him. I'm still angry and feel guilt for my vengeance fueled actions.

Regret Level7/10

left abusive relationship

left husband after 4 years of abuse, moved 3000 miles with little savings

Regret Level10/10

had to flee home due to DV issues

fled home with two people and limited belongings, exhausted all resources

Regret Level10/10

I stayed in the relationship for 15 years

He exhibited mental and financial abuse, blamed me for his actions, and took no accountability

Regret Level10/10

Engaged in non-consensual sex with 17-year-old

Was coerced into sex by partner, felt trapped and scared

Regret Level10/10

abused family pets due to past trauma

I abused multiple animals in the past, including pets, due to my own childhood trauma and defenselessness

Regret Level10/10

verbally abused long-distance ex boyfriend

verbally abused ex-boyfriend, said hurtful things, threatened to harm self

Regret Level10/10

I'm staying in this toxic relationship

He ghosted me after I asked for basic communication

Regret Level10/10

left abusive husband after severe incident

Physically and emotionally abused for 20 years, found out about his infidelity and lies

Regret Level10/10

fantasizing about death as a form of revenge

experienced emotional and physical abuse from parents, including physical fights, verbal torment, and neglect

Regret Level10/10

trying to escape abusive household

suffered verbal, emotional, and physical abuse all my life

Regret Level10/10

left him alone with a toxic substance

left him alone with a toxic substance; he died

Regret Level10/10

I don't deserve to live

I was sexually abused by a teenager when I was between 4 and 11 years old. My mom blamed me and my father was abusive, too.

Regret Level10/10

kept silent as a child

was molested by coach, brushed off by adults

Regret Level10/10

left abusive ex-husband after escalating behaviors

experienced panic attacks, crying, and exhaustion after leaving; still waiting for final settlement details

Regret Level1/10