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Decisions about
Abuse.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Abuse. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
Abuse Overview
85%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
12
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Abuse Regret Curve

Detailed aggregate statistics and longitudinal curves for this category are being calculated from the dataset.

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I refused to believe I was abused

My partner consistently gaslighted and manipulated me, causing me to doubt my own sanity

Regret Level8/10

I stayed in an unhappy marriage

My husband started taunting me after we separated, posting on social media with a man who had sexually harassed and stalked me

Regret Level10/10

I punched a man after he choked me

I pursued justice in the legal system, getting him indicted and a protection order against him. I'm still angry and feel guilt for my vengeance fueled actions.

Regret Level7/10

I stayed in the relationship for 15 years

He exhibited mental and financial abuse, blamed me for his actions, and took no accountability

Regret Level10/10

abused family pets due to past trauma

I abused multiple animals in the past, including pets, due to my own childhood trauma and defenselessness

Regret Level10/10

left abusive husband after severe incident

Physically and emotionally abused for 20 years, found out about his infidelity and lies

Regret Level10/10

trying to escape abusive household

suffered verbal, emotional, and physical abuse all my life

Regret Level10/10

left him alone with a toxic substance

left him alone with a toxic substance; he died

Regret Level10/10

left abusive ex-husband after escalating behaviors

experienced panic attacks, crying, and exhaustion after leaving; still waiting for final settlement details

Regret Level1/10

challenging military draft system

experienced abuse, long term health issues

Regret Level10/10

stood up to abusive father

pushed father back after he lunged at me

Regret Level8/10

kept secret for years

I was abused by my stepdad when I was 13. I didn't stop it and even liked the attention, which I'm still ashamed about

Regret Level8/10