abusecustody
#RI-6a7aaa93·5 months ago·
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“left abusive partner”
What Actually Happened
ex was verbally abusive and used lawyers to harass me
What I wish I knew
"abuse in family court is common"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"get support and don't self-represent"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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abuse Category
22
abuse decisions logged. Avg regret 8.8/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
86%
of abuse decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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