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@u/guessgirlfrommexiaabout 2 months ago
abuseEmotional Abuse
"I stayed in an unhappy marriage"
My husband started taunting me after we separated, posting on social media with a man who had sexually harassed and stalked me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had seen the signs of his true nature sooner"
Advice

"Don't ignore red flags in a relationship"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/icey_jad3yabout 2 months ago
abusefamily
"stood up to abusive father"
pushed father back after he lunged at me
What I wish I knew
"how to manage anger in that situation"
Advice

"stay calm in the face of abuse"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/FanPlus85972 months ago
abusefinancial
"trying to escape abusive household"
suffered verbal, emotional, and physical abuse all my life
What I wish I knew
"how to escape without financial means"
Advice

"seek help and support immediately"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Responsible_Sea_18723 months ago
abuseemotional
"I stayed in the relationship for 15 years"
He exhibited mental and financial abuse, blamed me for his actions, and took no accountability
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had left him sooner"
Advice

"Don't stay in an abusive relationship, prioritize your own well-being"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/BigKahuna23553 months ago
abusepublic altercation
"I punched a man after he choked me"
I pursued justice in the legal system, getting him indicted and a protection order against him. I'm still angry and feel guilt for my vengeance fueled actions.
What I wish I knew
"I wish he would have gone to jail and/or gotten deported."
Advice

"Don't let anger consume you, seek justice through the right channels."

7/10 regret
0
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@u/Puzzleheaded-Dot81483 months ago
abusechildhood trauma
"abused family pets due to past trauma"
I abused multiple animals in the past, including pets, due to my own childhood trauma and defenselessness
What I wish I knew
"understanding and coping mechanisms for trauma"
Advice

"acknowledge and seek help for past trauma to prevent similar actions"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/OliveDancen3 months ago
abusedivorce
"left abusive ex-husband after escalating behaviors"
experienced panic attacks, crying, and exhaustion after leaving; still waiting for final settlement details
What I wish I knew
"didn't wait so long to leave"
Advice

"seek help and support through therapy and loved ones"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u_venusasaboy2210 months ago
abusemilitary draft
"challenging military draft system"
experienced abuse, long term health issues
What I wish I knew
"access to alternative service was crucial"
Advice

"question authority, seek alternative options"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_deletedabout 1 year ago
abusedomestic violence
"left him alone with a toxic substance"
left him alone with a toxic substance; he died
What I wish I knew
"not to underestimate his intentions"
Advice

"don't underestimate threats from abusers"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Ughthesekidsover 1 year ago
abuseemotional
"left abusive husband after severe incident"
Physically and emotionally abused for 20 years, found out about his infidelity and lies
What I wish I knew
"Husband's abuse and infidelity were more severe than I thought"
Advice

"Trust your instincts and leave an abusive relationship as soon as possible"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_Josmetanoiaalmost 2 years ago
abusechildhood
"kept secret for years"
I was abused by my stepdad when I was 13. I didn't stop it and even liked the attention, which I'm still ashamed about
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had stopped it and told someone"
Advice

"Be honest with yourself and others about what happened"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_adzvaughanabout 2 years ago
abuseemotional
"I refused to believe I was abused"
My partner consistently gaslighted and manipulated me, causing me to doubt my own sanity
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized the signs of abuse earlier"
Advice

"Trust your instincts and don't be afraid to seek help if you're in an abusive relationship"

8/10 regret
0