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#RI-69ba7ada·4 months ago·
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left abusive husband after severe incident

Physically and emotionally abused for 20 years, found out about his infidelity and lies

What I wish I knew
"Husband's abuse and infidelity were more severe than I thought"
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and leave an abusive relationship as soon as possible"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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abuse Category
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abuse decisions logged. Avg regret 8.8/10 across the category.
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