abuseemotional
#RI-69f8757b·5 months ago·
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“I stayed in the relationship for 15 years”
What Actually Happened
He exhibited mental and financial abuse, blamed me for his actions, and took no accountability
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had left him sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in an abusive relationship, prioritize your own well-being"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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abuse Category
25
abuse decisions logged. Avg regret 8.8/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
84%
of abuse decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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