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#RI-69aa8551·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 18 month relationship

“I refused to believe I was abused”

My partner consistently gaslighted and manipulated me, causing me to doubt my own sanity

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized the signs of abuse earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and don't be afraid to seek help if you're in an abusive relationship"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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