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@u/pleaserheelssabout 2 months ago
relationalunhealthy relationship
"ended an unhealthy relationship and job"
ended a 5-month relationship due to anxiety and unhealthy dynamics
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had prioritized my own well-being sooner"
Advice

"don't wait to leave an unhealthy relationship"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/g0re-wh0reabout 2 months ago
relationalintimacy issues
"I'm considering breaking up with my girlfriend"
My girlfriend told me she's asexual and I feel disconnected from her
What I wish I knew
"I wish I understood her asexuality better before"
Advice

"Communicate openly with your partner about intimacy issues"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Able_Garden1746about 2 months ago
relationaltrust issues
"He chose to lie to avoid conflict"
He lied about talking to his ex and deleted/reinstalled Snapchat to avoid conflict and potential loss of me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was struggling with trauma and ADHD and how to communicate effectively"
Advice

"Be open and honest about your struggles and boundaries, and communicate effectively to avoid conflict"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Evafreyaabout 2 months ago
relationalboyfriend
"boyfriend's comment about smell"
He hurt me with an insensitive comment
What I wish I knew
"his words could be so damaging"
Advice

"be kind in your words"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Last-Accident6936about 2 months ago
relationalmarriage
"Encouraged wife to seek help"
Wife slapped our son after years of marital struggles
What I wish I knew
"How to better support her mental health"
Advice

"Encourage open communication and seek help when needed"

3/10 regret
0
Author
@u/UnusualTourist8567about 2 months ago
relationallong distance relationship
"Thought we were endgame, but circumstances changed"
She ended things due to distance, still loved me
What I wish I knew
"Communicate feelings more effectively"
Advice

"Don't take distance for granted"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/EffectiveOwl9087about 2 months ago
relationalghosting
"Dated someone with no clear intention"
He ghosted me after meeting his mom, then looked for a life partner
What I wish I knew
"He wasn't genuinely interested in a relationship"
Advice

"Be cautious of someone who doesn't communicate their intentions"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/ComprehensiveEnd3794about 2 months ago
relationalemotional abuse
"my dad sa'd me for 3-5 months in middle school"
my dad physically and emotionally abused me, but still treats my siblings well
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known it was not my fault"
Advice

"be honest with yourself and seek help"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/animalsfrogabout 2 months ago
relationaldating
"Tell restaurant staff to hold one seat, maybe two"
I get to the restaurant 15 min early and order a drink, then wait for my date
What I wish I knew
"How to handle being stood up"
Advice

"Be honest with the restaurant staff"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Royal-Particular7949about 2 months ago
relationalunhealthy conflict style
"Struggling with ongoing conflict in relationship"
Experienced emotional safety and repair issues with partner, leading to hours of arguing and feeling unheard
What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate emotional needs and avoid escalating conflicts"
Advice

"Practice active listening and validate each other's emotions to prevent unhealthy conflict patterns"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/AlternativeAttempt89about 2 months ago
relationalcommunication
"kept messing up in relationship"
I hurt him with my immature jokes and bad communication
What I wish I knew
"how to communicate better in stressful situations"
Advice

"be open and honest in relationships"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/No-Nobody3836about 2 months ago
relationalDating
"Feeling uncertain about romantic attention after weight loss"
Getting more attention from romantic interests after weight loss, but feeling uncertain about its authenticity
What I wish I knew
"To consider the potential for superficial relationships"
Advice

"Be cautious of people who only show interest after a physical transformation"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/No-Recover7015about 2 months ago
relationalunrequited love
"I pursued a long-distance relationship with someone I met online"
I continued to draw her even after she disappeared, and I pretended to be someone else to reconnect with her
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known that she was catfishing and that her online persona was not real"
Advice

"Be cautious of online relationships and prioritize real-life connections"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Royal-Particular7949about 2 months ago
relationalemotional abuse
"I'm considering whether my partner's behavior is abusive"
My partner's behavior has made me feel unprioritised, emotionally unsafe, and taken for granted
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to communicate my boundaries more effectively"
Advice

"Communicate your feelings and boundaries clearly and assertively"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/BlueIce21_about 2 months ago
relationalunhappiness
"ended 6-year relationship"
Boyfriend ended our 6-year relationship after I promised to change, but he no longer believed my promises
What I wish I knew
"He had already emotionally checked out before ending things"
Advice

"Don't ignore emotional distance in a relationship"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/ThrowRA_godamnabout 2 months ago
relationalawkward social situation
"left phone unlocked at party"
My friends saw private photos on my phone at a party, now everything is awkward with my crush and the whole group
What I wish I knew
"I wish I hadn't taken those photos in the first place"
Advice

"Be more careful with your phone and think before you act"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/ManagementGold499about 2 months ago
relationalinfidelity
"Spent 8k on international trip for her birthday"
She was hiding a crush on an ex and lied about it, causing me to lose trust
What I wish I knew
"She was still infatuated with him"
Advice

"Be honest with your partner about your feelings and actions"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/ProfessionalBee6369about 2 months ago
relationalmarriage
"Husband chose to drive children back to Montana"
My friend felt abandoned during labor
What I wish I knew
"Communicate more effectively"
Advice

"Consider both partner's perspectives"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/72729292929about 2 months ago
relationalex
"Let go of hope"
I'd focus on self-improvement and moving on
What I wish I knew
"To be honest with myself sooner"
Advice

"Don't waste time on unrequited love"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/SpecificBid5048about 2 months ago
relationalmixed signals
"I'm unsure if she's interested"
She's friendly in person, but distant in texts
What I wish I knew
"I should've asked her directly about her intentions"
Advice

"Don't overthink it, and don't be afraid to ask for clarity"

6/10 regret
0