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@u/Relative_Initial_399about 1 month ago · 1 year after
6/10
Regret

Said no to seeing boyfriend

Felt guilty for not explaining no reason to boyfriend

What I wish I knew
Explain practical reasons for no
RelationalCommunication
@u/djlsbunny_about 1 month ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

to stay in the relationship despite emotional disconnection

My boyfriend broke up with me and then got back together, but now he's emotionally disconnected and it's affecting our relationship

What I wish I knew
how to handle his emotional disconnection and what it means for our relationship
RelationalBreakup
@u/Rare_Repair_8026about 1 month ago · 1 month after
10/10
Severe

kept old friend on iPad after breakup

kept old friend on iPad, revealed old messages/photos

What I wish I knew
clear iPad before breakup
RelationalInfidelity
@u/Muted-Meeting-3550about 1 month ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

partner moved out without warning

Partner left me after 6 years together without explanation.

What I wish I knew
They were planning to leave me before I left for my trip.
RelationalAbusive Relationship
@u/Little-Situation1530about 1 month ago · 1 month after
4/10
Mixed

Reconnect in the future

Lots of tears and I love yous as it ended

What I wish I knew
Communicating effectively
RelationalBreakup
@u/Dapper_Tie_4305about 1 month ago · 3 weeks after
10/10
Severe

jumped into new relationship too quickly

Met woman on Bumble, became attached, but she ended things due to my recent divorce

What I wish I knew
how to manage grief and be emotionally ready for a new relationship
RelationalMoving On
@u/Oddlyboredlolabout 2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

trusted him again after the first incident

I found intimate pictures of other girls on his phone after he claimed to have deleted previous inappropriate content

What I wish I knew
he was lying about deleting the previous content
RelationalTrust Issues
@u/monsterrawrrawrabout 2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

I rekindled with a past friend

I rekindled with a past friend, but it turned into a confusing situation with him pursuing a romantic relationship

What I wish I knew
I wish I knew how to handle the situation better
RelationalSituationship
@u/Pendragonqueen09about 2 months ago · 1 month after
8/10
Regret

can't be interested in others

I'm stuck on dating apps, uninterested in others

What I wish I knew
I should've worked on myself
RelationalUnfulfilling Relationship
@u/Last-Accident6936about 2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Living with a messy spouse

Living with a messy spouse has taken a toll on my mental health and relationships

What I wish I knew
How to manage my expectations and communicate more effectively
RelationalSlob Spouse
@u/ThrowRANo-Professionabout 2 months ago · 5 months after
8/10
Regret

initiated sex without consent

partner initiated sex multiple times despite my reluctance

What I wish I knew
communication around sex boundaries is crucial
RelationalPartner
@u/BackgroundPayment65about 2 months ago · later this week after
5/10
Mixed

Reaching out to ex after 2 months

Realized how ingrained I was in the relationship, worked on myself, and built a life outside of it

What I wish I knew
Communicating effectively could have fixed relationship issues
RelationalEx-Partner
@u/Sad_Track_6941about 2 months ago · 3 years after
8/10
Regret

Wanted child with partner

Partner's weight impacted our sex life and his ability to impregnate me

What I wish I knew
He'd take my concerns seriously
RelationalCommunication
@u/Expensive-League3393about 2 months ago · 1 month after
8/10
Regret

dating a 17M from another state

met in person, discussed future plans, but have differing views on intimacy

What I wish I knew
more about his intentions and boundaries
RelationalLong Distance Relationship
@u/Cynoemabout 2 months ago · 4 nights in October after
2/10
Settled

drinking on a trip

I'm overthinking drinking on vacation

What I wish I knew
sober travel is manageable
RelationalSobriety
@u/NICEMENTALHEALTHPALabout 2 months ago · 1 year after
2/10
Settled

ignored project inquiry

Ignored project opportunity due to glitched Reddit message

What I wish I knew
Check direct messages before dismissing
RelationalCommunication
@u_Longjumping-Row14342 months ago · 1 year after
3/10
Mixed

Moved in with roommates

I've been living with roommates for a year, and while it's been affordable, I've had issues with food storage and protein absorption.

What I wish I knew
I wish I had researched better storage options before moving in.
RelationalLiving Situation
@u/androidvasuu2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

cheated in major relationships

Cheated in every major relationship, hurting those I care about

What I wish I knew
Self-awareness and self-control are key to genuine connections
RelationalCheating
@u_Upbeat_Formal93112 months ago · 2 days after
3/10
Mixed

reached out too soon

I begged for us to fix things right away

What I wish I knew
define what 'time' means
RelationalBoyfriend Needs Time
@u_Top_Worth_23712 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

confess feelings to close friend

I confessed my feelings to my close friend, but he didn't feel the same way, and our friendship changed

What I wish I knew
I wish I had been more prepared for the possibility of rejection
RelationalFriendship