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@u/Eastern_Valuable_34514 days ago
relationalfamily business
"struggling to find fulfillment"
constant stress and feeling drained
What I wish I knew
"how to prioritize self-care"
Advice

"take time to re-evaluate priorities"

6/10 regret
0
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@u/Specialist_Sea980514 days ago
relationalabusive marriage
"Leaving a DV marriage"
Grew up in a DV home, got trapped in an abusive marriage, isolated from friends and family, and had to find ways to escape
What I wish I knew
"The severity of the situationierte and the importance of seeking help early"
Advice

"Don't wait, reach out to trusted people, and take advantage of available resources"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Madhouse18030 days ago
relationalunrequited love
"In love with woman not attracted to"
Met woman 2 years ago, now in love but not attracted
What I wish I knew
"Physical attraction not necessary for love"
Advice

"Communicate openly with partner about feelings"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/crowbottles30 days ago
relationalbreakup
"broke up with me through a text after 11 years together"
I went through hell to change for you, but you still left me
What I wish I knew
"you would have talked to me"
Advice

"communicate your feelings before giving up"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Unscriptedpilot30 days ago
relationaldivorce
"asked wife for divorce"
she wont come home, hurts relationship
What I wish I knew
"communication issues were deeper"
Advice

"communicate openly before divorce"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Separate_Employment9about 1 month ago
relationalpast relationships
"got back into a past relationship"
got involved with a girl from my past after ending a previous relationship
What I wish I knew
"how to deal with my emotions after a breakup"
Advice

"be honest with yourself about your feelings"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/star_kessaabout 1 month ago
relationalfriendship
"friend's behavior at prom upset me"
my friend showed up late, then insisted on a fancy dinner, making us late to the dance
What I wish I knew
"she would have listened to my concerns"
Advice

"communicate your needs and boundaries clearly"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Life-Chard-502about 1 month ago
relationalrelationship conflict
"cut off parents to save relationship"
I tried to please my fiancée by cutting off my parents, but it led to feelings of guilt and shame. I continued to secretly contact them, which caused more tension in our relationship.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had communicated my boundaries and needs more clearly with my fiancée instead of trying to compromise on my relationship with my parents."
Advice

"Don't compromise your own values and relationships to save a relationship; it can lead to more harm in the long run."

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Inevitable_Bee4758about 1 month ago
relationaltoxic friendship
"took a hit of a laced cart"
I was laced with a cart in school and ended up in the ER. I felt extreme disorientation, my vision was distorted, and I experienced intense panic. The girl who gave it to me was not supportive and didn't call for help when I needed it.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known that my friend was not trustworthy and that the cart was laced."
Advice

"Be cautious of your friends and don't feel pressured to do something that makes you uncomfortable."

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/EasyMoneySniper2001_about 1 month ago
relationalbreakup
"Maintain no contact despite urges"
Boyfriend broke up with me again due to inability to accept my past/trauma
What I wish I knew
"To prioritize my own emotional well-being"
Advice

"Set clear boundaries to protect yourself"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Ok_Juggernaut9078about 1 month ago
relationalbreakup
"still loved her after breakup"
my heart got ripped out
What I wish I knew
"how to move on faster"
Advice

"give yourself time to heal"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Dapper-Care5417about 1 month ago
relationalinappropriate physical contact
"I let a stranger touch me in public"
A stranger grabbed my breasts in public, I felt violated and scared
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had spoken up or left the situation"
Advice

"Be aware of your surroundings and trust your instincts"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/narcotix_connoisseurabout 1 month ago
relationalbreakup
"Moved on"
Miss her so much, life has been shit since breakup
What I wish I knew
"How to move on"
Advice

"Give yourself time to heal"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Boring_Job7744about 1 month ago
relationalunrequited love
"sent unrequited love text"
sent text after one day, feel foolish
What I wish I knew
"don't send texts after short timeframes"
Advice

"think before sending unrequited love texts"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Objective-Quarter-69about 1 month ago
relationalasserting boundaries
"Set boundaries with partner"
Told partner I'd see him after work on Wednesday to avoid feeling rushed, leading to fights and frustration
What I wish I knew
"Communicating boundaries earlier could have prevented feelings of guilt and frustration"
Advice

"Be clear and direct about boundaries to avoid feelings of resentment and guilt"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/DevilishRynabout 1 month ago
relationalabusive relationship
"can't let go of abusive partner"
was in a violent, degrading relationship for 10 months
What I wish I knew
"knew the warning signs of abuse earlier"
Advice

"trust your instincts and prioritize your safety"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/1ov3rg1r1about 1 month ago
relationalabusive relationship
"Blocked ex-partner after emotional abuse"
I feel empty and miss my ex despite his controlling nature
What I wish I knew
"How to cope with anxiety after a breakup"
Advice

"Don't regret blocking an abusive partner"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Better-Painting9580about 1 month ago
relationalending no contact
"reaching out after no contact"
I reached out after taking time to reflect on my behavior, hoping to reconnect.
What I wish I knew
"it's better to respect boundaries"
Advice

"give space and time for the other person to process"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/GrouchyVegetable8036about 1 month ago
relationalmarriage
"Feeling most at ease when alone in marriage"
Wife withdrew from friends, family, and me over 8 years, creating tension and conflict
What I wish I knew
"How to address her withdrawal and offense without escalating issues"
Advice

"Consider couples therapy to address underlying issues and improve communication"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Mediocre6347about 1 month ago
relationalbreakup
"Forgave cheating partner"
Broke up with me after 9 years, confessed cheating
What I wish I knew
"He didn't love me anymore"
Advice

"Don't forgive someone who doesn't love you"

10/10 regret
0