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@u/md99has14 days ago · 2 months after
8/10
Regret

Dating a girl with low self-esteem and high expectations

Dating a girl who is very demanding and unsatisfied with sex

What I wish I knew
She has deeper emotional issues that affect our sex life
RelationalCommunication
@u/MangoKhushHua19 days ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

liked someone too much

got heartbroken after second date

What I wish I knew
read signs better
RelationalHeartbreak
@u/Extension-Engine-91120 days ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

sent hurtful texts

Lost loved one after intense arguments and cruel comments

What I wish I knew
Communicate more effectively in conflicts
RelationalLost Love
@u/Aggravating-Affect8621 days ago · 1 year after
5/10
Mixed

chose to let go of the relationship

I was in a relationship where my partner became distant, stopped sharing his life with me, and eventually ended it, citing he didn't want me to get caught up in his problems

What I wish I knew
his willingness to keep trying was gone
RelationalUnrequited Love
@u/madeyemad125 days ago · 1 minute after
8/10
Regret

misinterpreted Uber driver's message

I was rude to an Uber Eats driver, thinking he was outside my apartment building

What I wish I knew
to check the door before complaining
RelationalRudeness
@u/Money-Adhesiveness8326 days ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

tried to save relationship

got cheated on after fight

What I wish I knew
she was already over me
RelationalCheating
@u/Weak_Apartment508926 days ago · 1 year after
7/10
Regret

tell ex how I still feel

I'd rather risk heartbreak than live with regret

What I wish I knew
she may feel the same way
RelationalEx Relationship
@u/TopAtmosphere377727 days ago · Five months after
10/10
Severe

Proposed to partner despite red flags

Partner left me for someone else after 7 years of relationship, citing I'd changed and was negative

What I wish I knew
Red flags were ignored, partner's true nature was hidden
RelationalBetrayal
@u/42Daft29 days ago · D-day after
5/10
Mixed

Jack is being a dick at work

Held boundaries, came out sober, better than last year

What I wish I knew
set boundaries earlier
RelationalWork
@u/Mindless-Pumpkin-24229 days ago · 14 days after
9/10
Severe

changed Instagram username impulsively

changed username to guy's last name by mistake

What I wish I knew
to double check changes
RelationalSocial Media Mistake
@u/Odd_Physics_251about 1 month ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

boyfriend doesn't put in effort

boyfriend's lack of effort creates stress and guilt

What I wish I knew
he would make more of an effort
RelationalUnbalanced Relationship
@u/Glum_Pattern1432about 1 month ago · 3 weeks after
10/10
Severe

cheated on me while I'm pregnant

My husband had an ONS with his ex while I was pregnant, then lied about it

What I wish I knew
I wish I'd known he was capable of cheating on me
RelationalInfidelity
@u/MHPeachabout 1 month ago · 20 minutes after
10/10
Severe

refused to ask for his jacket

I stayed cold and spilled coffee on myself

What I wish I knew
ask for help directly
RelationalCommunication
@u/Possible_Nobody9771about 1 month ago · 5 months after
8/10
Regret

dated a man with serious injuries

our relationship changed significantly after his car accident; I struggle with communication and intimacy

What I wish I knew
how to effectively communicate my needs without fear of his reaction
RelationalCommunication
@u/mchikensandwhichabout 1 month ago · 6 months after
8/10
Regret

set boundaries with parents

parents consistently entered room without permission, searched through belongings

What I wish I knew
clearly communicating needs to parents earlier
RelationalParental Boundaries
@u/BadNewsBobabout 1 month ago · 37 years after
9/10
Severe

had an affair with my wife's sorority sister

My wife had an affair with her sorority sister during college, and revealed it to me 37 years later with no remorse

What I wish I knew
how to handle the situation without letting it affect our marriage
RelationalInfidelity
@u/Careful-Wafer-6057about 1 month ago · 1 year and a half after
10/10
Severe

messed up in relationship

girlfriend thinks about breaking up due to my mistakes

What I wish I knew
communicate more effectively
RelationalBreakup
@u/luckygirl7771about 1 month ago · 50 days after
1/10
Settled

ended toxic relationship

I was completely destroyed after breakup, couldn't eat, sleep, or move

What I wish I knew
I wish I knew how to let go sooner
RelationalBreakup
@u/antonia71007about 1 month ago · 2 days after
6/10
Regret

found out my online friend died

found out online friend died after 4.5 years of friendship

What I wish I knew
checked social media before searching online
RelationalLost Online Friend
@u/Budget-Mistake-9543about 1 month ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

can't hide drinking habits

Realised relapse triggers and struggles with admitting issues

What I wish I knew
admitting issues wouldn't be so hard
RelationalSelf-Blame