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@u/flatbootyhere10 days ago
relationalself-doubt
"I'm not confident in my abilities"
I've had many ideas but lack the courage to act
What I wish I knew
"believing in myself would be key"
Advice

"don't let fear hold you back"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/luckypoint8714 days ago
relationalwork-life balance
"Returning to work after a relaxing vacation"
Reality hit after a relaxing vacation, making me cry about returning to work
What I wish I knew
"The impact of work on my mental health"
Advice

"Appreciate your free time and prioritize self-care"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Forced2GetApp14 days ago
relationalclient interaction
"caved to client's demands"
Client threw a tantrum over a refund payment
What I wish I knew
"he'd act like a newborn over a small refund"
Advice

"don't let entitled clients bully you"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Last_Host97714 days ago
relationalfamily
"Didn't give 2 weeks notice"
My family made me feel guilty for taking a vacation
What I wish I knew
"Communicate better with my family"
Advice

"Always communicate openly with your loved ones"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/nocooneryallowed14 days ago
relationalboundary issues
"My manager's behavior made me feel disrespected and overworked"
My manager called and texted me 11 times on my day off, making me feel guilty and obligated to respond
What I wish I knew
"My manager's expectations were not clear about part-time work and boundaries"
Advice

"Set clear boundaries and communicate them clearly to avoid misunderstandings"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_skinnedmeat20 days ago
relationalunrequited love
"fell in love too quickly"
fell in love with someone who didn't feel the same way
What I wish I knew
"not to fall so deeply, so fast"
Advice

"don't rush into love"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Firsttakelikeamf20 days ago
relationalfriendship
"I feel guilty speaking to friends"
I feel like I'm wasting their time, they bore me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I could connect with others"
Advice

"try to find people who share your interests"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_johnthowaway9920 days ago
relationalfriendship/romance
"had sex with online friend"
I feel like I ruined our friendship and lost my friend
What I wish I knew
"he might have been looking for a serious relationship"
Advice

"be cautious when exploring intimacy with friends"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_yeehawgal1720 days ago
relationaldivorce
"I got divorced"
I lost the person I was supposed to grow old with
What I wish I knew
"there was a point where things could have been saved"
Advice

"don't let regret consume you"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ireallydontknow4420 days ago
relationaljealousy
"suspect jealousy in best friend"
best friend became cold and distant after my life changes
What I wish I knew
"how to handle jealousy in a friend"
Advice

"address the issue directly or grieve the friendship"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_theundercoverwasp20 days ago
relationalunconventional meeting
"Met in a public bathroom on a family holiday"
Met my boyfriend in a public bathroom on a family holiday after eating dodgy food. He heard me through the stall door and we exchanged numbers, went on a mini date, and eventually got into the same university.
What I wish I knew
"Nothing, I wouldn't change it."
Advice

"Be open to unexpected meetings, you never know who you might meet."

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u_TopFrame121 days ago
relationaltoxic partner
"boyfriend's behavior is changing"
boyfriend's short temper and name-calling have caused me stress and anxiety
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to communicate with him about his behavior"
Advice

"set clear boundaries and communicate openly with your partner"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Pickled_Life21 days ago
relationallong-distance marriage
"ended long-distance marriage"
Still talk and meet daily, but know it needs to stop for me to move on
What I wish I knew
"Cut contact sooner for faster healing"
Advice

"Know when to let go, even if it's hard"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u_spacedement1a21 days ago
relationaltoxic relationship
"I'd get back with my ex despite consequences"
Lost everything for a toxic relationship
What I wish I knew
"Relationships have consequences"
Advice

"Don't sacrifice everything for love"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_BagRoughtough21 days ago
relationalrelationship patterns
"I'm consistently trying in relationships"
Relationships end at 2-3 month mark due to partner's sudden distance
What I wish I knew
"Identify potential red flags sooner"
Advice

"Communicate openly and address issues early on"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Witty-Occasion242421 days ago
relationalunrequited love
"telling friend about feelings"
crush on friend consumed my mind, affected daily life
What I wish I knew
"being honest with myself about feelings sooner"
Advice

"don't be afraid to express feelings, even if scary"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_MageOfFur21 days ago
relationalpartner stress
"don't know what to do"
partner's home life is stressful and unstable
What I wish I knew
"how to help without enabling"
Advice

"set boundaries while still being supportive"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_EntertainmentKey254821 days ago
relationalunrequited love
"confess feelings to ex-girlfriend"
I confessed feelings to ex-girlfriend, but she didn't reciprocate
What I wish I knew
"to be more confident in expressing my feelings"
Advice

"be honest and direct when confessing feelings"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_oloivam1322 days ago
relationaltrust issues
"trusted the wrong people"
I spent 2 years loving someone who was never committed to me
What I wish I knew
"don't trust people who don't reciprocate your feelings"
Advice

"be cautious of people who don't prioritize your relationship"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_niponew22 days ago
relationallost love
"let love consume me"
I invested so much in a relationship that ended badly
What I wish I knew
"he didn't feel the same"
Advice

"don't give up control"

8/10 regret
0