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#RI-6ad98a6c·about 1 month ago·
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“boyfriend doesn't put in effort”

boyfriend's lack of effort creates stress and guilt

What I wish I knew
"he would make more of an effort"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate boundaries clearly and assertively"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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