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Relational.

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Relational Overview
76%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
467
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

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feeling like I have no autonomy in my relationship

My fiancé doesn't trust me, checks my location, and controls my daily activities

Regret Level8/10

want to be more self-aware

unintentionally hurt husband's feelings with nitpicking and mean tone

Regret Level8/10

Handle in-laws visit alone

Find her annoying, codependent and aggravating

Regret Level8/10

suggest meeting after tennis match

date cancelled due to exam schedule

Regret Level2/10

Got married despite concerns

Husband emotionally abandoned me during postpartum, leading to resentment and anger

Regret Level8/10

let him have space

I unintentionally pressured him and made him feel bad, causing him to lose trust in me

Regret Level10/10

Husband confessed to affair

Experienced depression and ER visit due to stress

Regret Level10/10

Relationship uncertain, considering leaving

We've been arguing due to misunderstandings, no quality time together

Regret Level8/10

I'm consistently trying in relationships

Relationships end at 2-3 month mark due to partner's sudden distance

Regret Level8/10

blocked my avoidant ex

Dating an avoidant ex hurt me a lot, especially since he wasn't healed from childhood trauma.

Regret Level2/10

boyfriend wants to have sex with other girls

he wants to have sex with other girls, justifying it as natural for him

Regret Level10/10

distant myself from B after confession

B confessed romantic feelings, was pushy, and didn't respect boundaries

Regret Level8/10

Moved on from boyfriend after discovering infidelity

I'm now focusing on rebuilding my life and friendships after a toxic relationship

Regret Level8/10

Decided to block him everywhere

My ex kept reaching out after we broke up, despite me blocking him

Regret Level8/10

To hold space for my husband's emotions

I'm trying to be more present and supportive when my husband is emotional, but it's hard for me to feel his feelings

Regret Level2/10

I made it obvious I wanted to talk to her

I panicked and pretended not to care after making it obvious I'm interested

Regret Level6/10

said something disturbing despite not meaning it

He blurted out a disturbing statement about raping his daughter, then apologized, saying he didn't mean it

Regret Level8/10

Dating one girl exclusively after multiple others

Caught feelings for one girl after multiple others, now worried about exclusivity

Regret Level5/10

I tried to have open conversations about sex

My partner's kink shaming made me feel rejected and judged

Regret Level8/10

grew up with emotionally abusive older brother

grew up feeling like a living ghost to my older brother, who was emotionally abusive and narcissistic

Regret Level8/10