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Decisions about
Relational.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Relational. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
Relational Overview
78%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
142
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Relational Regret Curve

Detailed aggregate statistics and longitudinal curves for this category are being calculated from the dataset.

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Suspected cheating, didn't believe it

Read messages, felt bad for myself, realized he cheated

Regret Level8/10

Told friend of romantic interest

Told friend of romantic interest, got brief response

Regret Level6/10

cheated on me with a coworker

Partner of 8 years cheated with a coworker, destroying our relationship

Regret Level10/10

Supported partner through tough times

He said he loves me but doesn't respect me due to my lack of ambition

Regret Level8/10

gf left after 17 years

gf cheated and left me with kids

Regret Level10/10

relapsed on a night out

I broke my sobriety and made a decision that could ruin my relationship

Regret Level10/10

stay in marriage despite abuse

Husband's constant sarcasm and mean jokes hurt me. He's never apologized and has been emotionally abusive.

Regret Level8/10

Fell in love with someone

He dumped me over text, body-shamed me, and shattered my trust

Regret Level8/10

had an affair with my wife's sorority sister

My wife had an affair with her sorority sister during college, and revealed it to me 37 years later with no remorse

Regret Level9/10

Dating someone who doesn't pursue me

Feel like I'm always asking for effort and reassurance

Regret Level8/10

leaving the relationship

partner refuses to communicate, makes demands, neglects chores

Regret Level10/10

got doxxed after someone found me online

Someone found me online, posted my address and phone number, and sent death threats

Regret Level10/10

let him walk all over me

He took advantage of my patience and kindness, then became abusive when I stood up for myself

Regret Level8/10

Partner joked about choking me

Partner's joking choke hurt and scared me, escalating abuse

Regret Level8/10

tried to save relationship

got cheated on after fight

Regret Level10/10

I chose to work on our marriage

He had an online affair that later got physical

Regret Level10/10

failed to address partner's parenting issues

partner's lack of effort and anger caused anxiety for children

Regret Level8/10

Jack is being a dick at work

Held boundaries, came out sober, better than last year

Regret Level5/10

ended 10-year relationship

struggling during no contact period after 4 months of talks and therapy

Regret Level8/10

Had sex with partner while asleep

Woke up to partner having sex with me without consent

Regret Level10/10