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relationalinsecurity in marriage
#RI-69a91343·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 7 years into marriage

I tried to have open conversations about sex

My partner's kink shaming made me feel rejected and judged

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to fix this issue"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about sex from the start"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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