relationalbetrayal
#RI-6ae5d41b·27 days ago·
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“Proposed to partner despite red flags”
What Actually Happened
Partner left me for someone else after 7 years of relationship, citing I'd changed and was negative
What I wish I knew
"Red flags were ignored, partner's true nature was hidden"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts, don't ignore red flags in a relationship"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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