relationalinfidelity
#RI-6ad44607·about 1 month ago·
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“had an affair with my wife's sorority sister”
What Actually Happened
My wife had an affair with her sorority sister during college, and revealed it to me 37 years later with no remorse
What I wish I knew
"how to handle the situation without letting it affect our marriage"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't let past infidelity define your relationship"
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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