RelationshipManipulative Partner
#RI-6ab74392·about 2 months ago·
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“I've stopped engaging in banter with my boyfriend”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend uses our attraction against me in arguments, making me feel like I'm losing every time
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my feelings without being attacked"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and avoid engaging in banter to prevent feelings of manipulation"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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