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RelationshipJealousy
#RI-6adb3dd2·2 months ago·
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“Read my boyfriend's messages with his ex”

Saw messages that fueled negative thoughts and jealousy

What I wish I knew
"To delete the messages before reading them"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner and seek help if needed"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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