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#RI-6ae5d4cb·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year of dating

“My boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with others”

He wants to watch me have sex with others, which makes me feel guilty and worried about our relationship

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if his desires are a sign of deeper issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about boundaries and desires"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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