relationalpartner conflict
#RI-69a9125d·2 months ago·
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“My BF is trying to make me angry and start a fight by picking fights”
What Actually Happened
My BF has been trying to provoke me into arguments over trivial things, making me feel frustrated and helpless
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to communicate with him effectively without escalating the situation"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be aware of your partner's triggers and try to avoid arguing when they're in a bad mood"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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